Today my nephew graduated from high school. It has been a tumultuous road for him, like it is for most teens. We were even unsure if he was going to make it to the ceremony itself as he was not feeling well. But – he did it. I was so happy I was able to attend. My sister (his mom) and I started crying in the car just talking about it while we were driving there. The setting for the graduation could not have been in a more beautiful setting, surrounded by the Red Rocks of the Rocky Mountains. Even though the weather was cloudy and cool, it was an amazing place to be. Once we found our seat, I looked up and behind us and there were all the graduates in their places prepared to make their entrance. We found out approximately where my nephew was and I headed up to see if I could get a photo. As I was searching, they started the procession. I was in the right place at the right time and got some great pix of him making his way to his seat. The band that he had been a part of for 4 years played the entrance song and the choir sang the national anthem. Music is a priority in the school and they do a tremendous job. I stopped trying to hold back the tears by that point and just went for the kleenex which I had loaded in my pockets. Each speaker made some great points, but the one that struck me the most was the valedictorian’s quote from Aristotle, “Choice not chance determines your destiny.” He challenged the class not to become complacent or overwhelmed by the problems of the world, but to continually strive to make a positive difference. Yes – more crying. Then came time for the diplomas. It was your typical calling of the names, walking up and shaking hands. But it was also being played on the jumbotron so everyone could get a good look. Some kids did funny things, my nephew was pretty straight forward as is his personality. By the time the end came, I had gotten a grip over my emotions and just enjoyed the moment. We took several pictures with the gorgeous scenery and headed out to lunch – nephew’s choice of course. Now, I am not a fan of any kind of Asian or Oriental food, but his choice was Vietnamese Pho. I said I would give it a shot and actually loved the egg rolls and noodle soup. I was as shocked as they were. So – I got to be a part of my nephew’s long awaited high school graduation celebration and discovered a new food that I enjoy. It was a great day.
I Found God today in celebrating the effort and accomplishment of my nephew, and I pray he will continue moving forward in the positive road he is on.