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Rosary at the Cemetery

The other day I was reading the local Diocese magazine and saw that the Knights of Columbus were praying the rosary in the military cemetery on the 2nd Saturday of the month. They were inviting others to join them. That sounded like a great idea to me. I called a friend who recently buried her mother along with her father there and asked if she wanted to go. She did, so I picked her up this morning. When we arrived at the cemetery, we saw a few cars that were in front of one of the gathering areas and assumed it was the group since there were no other vehicles anywhere. We parked and walked into the covered outdoor space and were greeted by one of the men. I asked if they were the praying group. He said they were. I asked if we could join them. He said we were most welcome. I told him I had read the article in the Diocese magazine. He and the other men were very happy that it had caught our attention, and it was their hope that more people would come to pray with them. After a few other men arrived, everyone introduced themselves and shared a prayer intention. They were all from different parishes, but part of the Knights of Columbus. Before praying the rosary, we were asked if we wanted to lead part of it. My friend quietly bowed out. How could I refuse. It was a beautiful morning to pray in that peaceful, sacred place. The air was crisp and clear and the cover kept us out of the sun. The only other sound I heard was the birds flying and chirping. After the prayers, my friend and I went to her mom and dad’s gravesite. She was elated to find that the new headstone had been put in place. It now included her mom’s name with a carved image of the Sacred Heart. She fell to her knees and cried. After a while, we went over to my parents’ gravesite where I placed the flowers I had prepared. We prayed a little more before we left. I was so glad that I decided to go and that my friend came too.

I Found God today praying with a friend at the cemetery.

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God’s Moving

I got together with one of my neighbors today who I had not seen for a couple of months. They were away, then I was away, then things got a little hectic. It was good to visit with them. As I told them about my trip and everything that is happening since I returned, I was again made aware of how good God is to me. My son and his family are getting all settled safely in their new home. I had a wonderful time with all my different relatives, each in their own way, and they were all so gracious. As I traveled by myself, I went off the beaten path and came across the Indian School that my brother has been supporting, I experienced some very peaceful places that held some of the same items that my parents owned, and I saw lots of wildlife alone on gravel roads. A couple days after I got home, we received an offer to sell the family cabin and I signed the contract on the 2nd anniversary of my mom’s death. And less than 2 weeks after we close on that sale, my daughter in law and son will be having their first child. God is moving in my life. As my friend said, “buckle up”! I am also incredibly cognizant that I have done nothing special to deserve His blessings. But I am His child, just as you are. And I am grateful that I am learning how to be more aware of His Presence, His Love, and His Movements.

I Found God today reflecting on His Movement in my life.

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Kiss the Crucifix

I watched a video today based on Padre Pio’s reasons for kissing a crucifix. It gave me some thoughts to ponder. Of course, a crucifix doesn’t have magical powers and we are not venerating wood or metal. We kiss the cross firstly to humble ourselves and acknowledge that Jesus is God and we are not. We purposefully make ourselves meek in the presence of Christ crucified. As we look at Jesus on the cross, we remember the sacrifice that He made for us, giving His life so that we can live forever with Him in Heaven. As God, He chose to enter into our humanity, another humbling thought. At the same time, we realize that He suffered tremendously. When we are going through hard times and suffering, it is necessary to remember that Jesus is walking our journey with us, and He understands our pain. As we hold and kiss the crucifix, we realize that we can unite our suffering with His for the benefit of others. Finally, the more time we spend with Jesus, the more our hearts can be changed from despair to hope, from anxiety to joy. I also found some quotes by Padre Pio that I found particularly fitting to the topic:

“You should rather humble yourself before God than be distressed if he reserves for you the sufferings of his Son, and makes you experience your weakness. You should offer up to him the prayer of resignation and hope, even when you fall through frailty, and thank him for all the benefits with which he continually enriches you.”

“The sublime degree of humility is not only to recognize one’s own abjection but to love it. I have chosen says the prophet to be abject in the house of God rather than to dwell in the houses of sinners.”

I Found God today in a reflection about kissing a crucifix.

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The Old Cabin Friend

Today my brother and I talked with an old friend from the cabin. He always called my dad his “Little Buddy”. They were good friends for over 40 years, helping one another with construction projects, just hanging out, and even connecting during vacation. Our families got to know each other and had some fun times together. We grieved when his wife got Alzheimer’s and passed away. He saw the signs in my dad and was so understanding and supportive. After my mom died, he had a large stone beautifully engraved with both my parents’ names and gave it to us as a memorial. When we talked today, we had to tell him the news that our cabin has likely sold. He moaned and groaned and was very unhappy. But he knew that’s what would probably happen. He said that everything changes. It was good talking with him even though it was bittersweet and I was sad when I hung up. We hope to see each other before everything is said and done. He has been a good friend and I am grateful for the relationship.

I Found God today talking with an old friend.

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Apartment Intervention

I met up with my prayer group and one of the ladies told us that she was moving. We were all surprised. We knew that the circumstances in her current apartment were not very good, but didn’t know she was looking for a new place. Evidently, she really wasn’t, but said that God planned the whole thing. A friend of hers told her about a new low income apartment complex that was just beginning to take applications. She had been through this process before, so my friend knew it could take years for them to have an opening. But as things worsened in her current apartment, she decided she might as well get started. She went to the office who gave her a tour, then asked if she wanted to complete an application. My friend filled out the paperwork while she was there. When she was finished, the manager congratulated her and said she had an apartment. She said she wished she would be able to have a mountain view. A few weeks later, she went in to sign the contract. There was evidently some confusion on the apartment she was supposed to be in and they offered her one that was over her budget. She told the person that it was a lot to pay – more than her current apartment. The person asked if she wanted it or not. My friend didn’t know how to respond and had been praying the whole time for God to let her know what she should do. Before she could answer, another office person came in with a folder and placed it on the desk. The gentleman looked at it and told my friend that another apartment had just opened up. It was the price she had been quoted previously and had a mountain view. My friend was elated and signed the paperwork. She is very much looking forward to moving into her new place. It is amazing how God shows up when you ask Him to.

I Found God today as he intervened for my friend.

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Baby Room

My son’s husky has been acting out recently if they leave her alone. She seems to be particularly attached to his wife, who is expecting soon. If they both leave the house, the dog is getting into things. It wasn’t a problem until recently, and she is well behaved as long as she is not left alone. I am pretty sure she knows there is a baby in the mix now and perhaps is being overly protective, or worried, or something. The last couple of days I have spent some time at the house with the dog while my son and his wife go on appointments and such. They have been setting up the baby room, getting it all ready. They have a new fancy bed for her and a nice rocking chair. The closet and dresser are full of clothes and toys and blankets and accessories. It was so fun looking at all the tiny headbands and socks and sleepers. We are all looking forward to having this new little girl come into our lives to hold and love.

I Found God today in anticipation of my newest granddaughter.

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250 Years

As our country celebrated it’s 250 years of freedom today, my brother and I enjoyed spending the afternoon with my son, his wife, and her family. It was sad that our area is in a burn ban and no fireworks were allowed. I did watch some on TV that were pretty amazing, though. I heard stories about our founding fathers and about patriots from the past and present. Reflecting on the history of our country made me feel even more grateful to live here. A friend said she prayed a Patriotic Rosary today for every state. Another friend shared this prayer:


Prayer to Mary Immaculate, Patroness of the United States:

Most Holy Trinity, we put the United States of America into the hands of Mary Immaculate in order that she may present the country to you.

Through her, we wish to thank you for the great resources of this land and for the freedom which has been its heritage.

Through the intercession of Mary, have mercy on our President, all officers of our government, and all citizens. Help us to act always according to your will, building a nation of justice, charity, and peace.

Protect our family life, guide our communities, and guard the precious gift of every human person.

Mary, Immaculate Virgin, our Mother and Patroness of our land, we praise you and honor you and give ourselves to you. Pray for us, that we may live and die pleasing to God. Amen.

Happy 250th Birthday, America!! πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸŽ‡πŸ₯³πŸŽ‰

I Found God today in many ways of celebrating patriotism.

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Strength

Today I was talking with my brother about a friend’s mother who has been through a lot of medical issues and is still going strong, just turning 91 years old. I told him that if I were to get very ill, I don’t know if I would have the ability to make it to the other side, as I feel that I am pretty weak. He replied that I am probably stronger than I think I am as I have already been through a lot of turmoil and have pushed through. I guess I had never thought of it like that before. Later, I saw a quote that said, “Looking back, I realize it was never my strength that kept me going, it was His. Through every uncertainty, His love never left. Even when my faith wavered, His faithfulness remained.” I think that describes my feelings as well. There have certainly been times when I thought I couldn’t go forward any more, or couldn’t recover from a particular circumstance. Yet I did. I’m sure it wasn’t due to my own strength. Trying to stay close to God and allowing Him to put things in place has always been the best answer.

I Found God today realizing His strength that has pulled me through difficult situations.

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Focus on the Good

My sister shared a quote today that I really loved:

“Teach your mind to focus on the good, even during hard times. Life will not always go the way you planned, but there are still blessings all around you. Open your heart, notice them, and choose gratitude every day.”

Then a friend posted another quote:

“We must never forget the importance of gratitude. Say thank you when your heart is full. And when it breaks. And when you are alone and sad. And when you dance with joy. And when things are lost. And found again. Day and night give thanks for this incredibly beautiful, tragic, gift called life.”

Both of these really helped me to remember to stay positive and calm today, knowing that God is good and watching over me.

I Found God today in a reminder to be grateful.

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Dental Work

Last week I had a crown replaced on one of my back teeth. It is always torture to me to have any dental work done as I can’t open my mouth wide enough. Sometimes I even have bruises on my face. This past time, my jaw hurt, but thankfully there was no bruising. Although, because of the numbing, I bit both sides of my cheeks. My mouth felt sore and inflamed, making it hard to chew. I usually don’t eat quickly, but I have been very slow for several days. Yesterday I noticed my mouth and jaw didn’t hurt as much. Today when my brother and I had meals together, I actually finished before him every time. It was at dinner that I realized the accomplishment and was grateful that my mouth seems to be healing.

I Found God today in healing.