After the retreat yesterday, I went to Mass, then to the grocery store since it was supposed to be a snowy day today. By the time I got home, I was pretty tired. I had some dinner and fell asleep on the sofa. I woke up a little after midnight and saw that I had missed a text. I had been bringing Holy Communion to an elderly woman with dementia for about a year, and the text was from her daughter in law who she lived with. The text came in a little after 10:00 pm and said that the woman had taken a sudden turn for the worse. They were asking for a priest to administer Last Rights. I felt so bad that I missed the text and gave them a call even though it was so late. The daughter in law picked up the phone. She said they were able to get in touch with a priest and that her mother-in-law had received the Sacrament. She said that Jesus was bringing her home and she didn’t know how long she would be here. She said I was welcome to go over any time I wanted. Since it sounded sudden and severe, I decided to go over. The words from the retreat resonated in my head – just show up. Several members of the household were still up keeping vigil when I arrived. They gave me some private time with the elderly woman. I greeted her as I always did, stroked her head, and held her hand. I talked about the church days coming up such as St. Patrick’s Day, which is what I would usually do. As I said some prayers, she opened her eyes and seemed to try to say them as well. I told the family how grateful I was that they allowed me to be such an intimate part of their lives and what a blessing it has been to get to know them and the elderly woman. I truly believe that being with someone as they are dying, is to witness their personal transition from this world to the next. When I got home about 2:00 am, I was a little wired to just go to bed. I felt I needed to pray more, so I got out my rosary and prayed the Divine Mercy Chaplet. As I made the sign of the cross, I noticed the beautiful smell of the chrism oil that the woman had been anointed with on my hand. When I finished they prayers I felt at peace, knowing that God had the woman in His hands, and was able to go to bed.
I Found God today blessed to be part of an elderly woman’s life and death.