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Drawbridges

Today I went out and about with my cousin’s wife. We started out looking at all the stores near the waterfront. I’m not really a big shopper, and as we walked, I just wanted to be closer to the water. So, we made our way down. We walked along the nice sidewalks and piers. A flurry of motion in the water caught my eye and I spotted a mother duck with about a dozen babies. They followed her in and out of the water. Their little feet went so fast in the water it looked like they were running on the top. It was adorable. We made our way up to the first of 3 drawbridges that shuttle traffic across the bay. It was a foggy day, which made the scenery very interesting. As we walked over the bridge, we came to a little house like building. My cousin explained that it was the building for the bridge tender – the person who is in charge of opening and closing the bridges. Her father was a bridge tender and I learned all about the workings of the 3 bridges. It was exciting to see the bridges open for boats to go under. We went up to the top of a museum that overlooked the bay and she pointed out different landmarks. There was a particular sailboat that was built in the shipyard there that was highlighted in the museum and just happened to be docked right outside. My cousin told me of the time she spent a week on that boat with the family who owned it. She had so much to share about the area and was a fantastic guide for the day. I was grateful that I got to know her better and for such a fun day.

I Found God today enjoying the time with my cousin.

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Similarities and Differences

Today I had another wonderful day with relatives. My aunt had mentioned that she was behind on putting flowers around her house. So this morning, we went to the flower stores where she picked up a beautiful yellow hanging begonia that caught her eye and a small pot of red geraniums. Every summer, my mom also loved getting a pot of red geraniums. When we got back to her house, I put the geraniums on her front step and the hanging basket near the back porch. My aunt sat in her favorite chair and was so happy that she could see her gorgeous yellow begonias. When we were visiting later, she told me that starting in junior high, she was in the marching band and played the drums. I never knew that before. She said she couldn’t sing great, but she could really play the drums and other percussion instruments. We talked about how my mom played many different instruments in the band. I loved spending the day with my aunt and learning more about her life and some similarities and differences between her and my mom.

I Found God today learning more about the bonds between my aunt and my mom.

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Positive Outlook

I continued my travels today and made it to my aunt’s house. We went to dinner with 2 of her sons and got caught up on the family news. I had not seen one of the cousins in many years. He has been through tragedies, family struggles, and health issues. But through it all he has an amazing positive attitude. Recently he was treated for cancer and it was unsure if he would survive. Both he and his brother attributed his recovery to his determination to beat the disease. He had a business in the town at one time and knew many of the people in the restaurant. Others said a cheerful hello to him, but he didn’t recognize them. Regardless, he greeted everyone with enthusiasm. His perseverance and uplifting attitude were so encouraging.

I Found God today in a positive outlook on life.

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More Cousins

Today I got to spend time with more cousins. We went to a local restaurant and I was proud of myself for trying some foods that I never had before. And it was delicious. We also went to a local town fair that was small but fun. Their son met us there with his girlfriend and their new baby. She was so tiny and sweet and did all those newborn things that make you smile and go aww! The mom also had a 6 year old daughter. We all had fun watching her excitement as she went on the carnival rides and saw the animals at the petting zoo. It was a low-key and joyful afternoon. In the evening, we talked about handling the suffering and death of loved ones as well as the incredible joys of miracles and the way God lets us know He is still with us. I was so grateful for the day and the people in it.

I Found God today in the joy of more family time.

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Beautiful Place

Today my cousin’s wife came with me to visit a shrine that was in my book and near their city. It was just a tiny chapel that was built to be a “beautiful place” for people to go to worship and renew their faith. There was a big building next to the little chapel, so we rang the doorbell. An attractive young woman in a habit opened the door and greeted us with a warm smile. She told us a little about the sisters who lived there and cared for the shrine. Then we spent some time in prayer in the chapel. The place and the woman we met were certainly beautiful and peaceful. I was glad to share this moment with my cousin and with all the people and intentions I brought in prayer.

I Found God today in a beautiful place of faith.

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Back Again

Today I spent time with one of my second cousins and family who I reconnected with last year. He spent quite a bit of time with my dad working on the cabin back in the day. We swapped more stories of the place and people who he met up there. When we were together last year, I brought some of my dad’s photos and shared them. My heart swelled when I saw the framed photo hanging on their wall. I had talked about all the things in my parents’ house that I was still trying to find homes for. He expressed interest in some, so after discussing with my siblings, I delivered some items to him this time around – including the old train set. He had already started setting up an electric train track in his basement and was looking forward to adding the pieces I brought and enjoying it with his grandchildren. I was happy to know it will be well used. In return, he did some computer work that was super helpful to me. His wife has the same name as my mom. Last year it felt strange to use it, this year I enjoyed saying it. They moved to a new house and were experiencing Spring there for the first time. We toured the large yard and tried to identify the different plants. We walked on some very well kept trails in the neighborhood that went through the prairies strewn with greenery and wildflowers. She is such a peaceful faithful and encouraging soul. I also got to visit with 2 of their daughters who are also very loving and generous. There were 2 more of my dad’s photos framed and on the walls. I felt so much joy and gratitude to spend time with them all again.

I Found God today spending time with cousins.

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1200 Relics

Today I visited an incredible shrine that held over 1200 relics, including first and second class relics of saints and even some pieces of the True Cross. I arrived in time for the tour and was the only one there, so it was a private tour. We went to the relic chapel first and the woman described some of the first class relics, which are pieces of the body of a saint, and second class relics, which are items that the saint touched. For example, there was a second class relic of the cloak of St. Joseph. The story is that after his death, Mary held onto his coat to remember him. It can seem strange to keep parts of bodies, but the practice goes way back to Jewish tradition. They kept the bodies of some of their elders and carried them to be buried in the Promised Land. It was a way of showing respect, reverance, and to help them remember. Many of the bodies of the early saints were retrieved after they were martyred and brought to safe places. Some were rescued from catacombs that were being destroyed. The faithful wanted to remember and honor those who went before them. Relics go through an investigation process and are sealed and have accompanying papers that authenticate it. I had many questions for the tour guide. The first was where did all the relics come from. She said the priest who founded the church there enjoyed collecting relics and brought them over from Europe when he was asked to come minister to the immigrants in the area. He continued to acquire them and as time went on, people knew that this chapel was a sacred place that relics would be cared for. Those who were looking for a safe place for their relics would bring them there. The tour and history of the place was fascinating. There was an additional chapel for Mass and Eucharist Adoration. Outside there were statues, Stations of the Cross, a grotto and shrine to Our Lady of Lourdes. After the tour I went back into the Relic Shrine where I could feel the holiness and peace. I prayed for everyone I could think of and all their intentions. My tour guide came in and offered to get out the relic of the True Cross, which I was very excited for. She let me hold it and I suddenly became overwhelmed. It was a feeling that is hard to explain, powerful yet peaceful. I handed the large, ornate case – reliquary – back to the woman and thanked her. As I sat back down, I knew I could stay there for hours, but realized I needed to continue my drive. I had several hours to go before arriving at my cousin’s house and didn’t want to drive in the dark. I prayed about it and realized that God can do anything with time, even turn back the clock if He wanted to. Eventually I got back in the car and started my drive. It wasn’t long before I went across a time zone and time literally went back one hour. I laughed and thanked God.

I Found God today being surrounded by holiness.

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Cousin Connection

When my dad was 18 years old, he entered a beautiful silhouette black and white photo of his sister into a photo competition. It won an “Honorable Mention”. The framed  photo along with the ribbon has been traveling with our family ever since. It was also displayed at different photo competitions and exhibits as shown by the stickers on the back of the frame. It is truly a work of art and I wanted to get it to my aunt’s family. One of my cousins stayed in touch with my parents and I was able to connect with him. Today I made it to his house and delivered the photo along with a beautiful cross stitch that my aunt had created for my parents. We had not seen one another for 55-60 years when we were children. We had much to learn from one another and yet, the afternoon visit was very natural. He was so happy with the pictures as he doesn’t have much from his mother. It turns out that his family is very faithful, including 3 of his 5 daughters who are all married and have children of their own. He played a recording of the 3 of them singing a hymn in harmony. It was heavenly. One of the girls is also an artist. Before I left, they gave me a prayer card that she had created including a hand drawn picture of St. Carlo Acutis, and a prayer that she wrote. The prayer card was touched to one of his relics. I felt very honored to receive such a gift. My cousin commented on what a blessing it was for us to connect. I agreed.

I Found God today connecting with a long lost cousin.

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Saying Goodbye

I went to Mass this morning in the town where my family moved. It was a cute little modern church that is bilingual. I went to the English Mass. Afterwards, there were tables full of packaged baked goods and everyone was taking one, so, I took a box of donuts. After checking out of my VRBO, I made one last stop at my son’s house. The kids were happy to see the donuts. I told them they need to go to church now to get more. When I hugged my son goodbye, the tears started coming. I tried not to cry too much as I went around and hugged everyone, even my grandson’s room mate who is officially a part of the family. I told them to take care of each other and we exchanged “Love you!” as I headed out the door. Then I started my drive, trying not to think too much about how far away they will be now. On my drive, I stopped at a church in my book, “Monuments, Marvels, and Miracles; A Travelers Guide to Catholic America”. According to the story, in the mid 1800’s, a gentleman had an apparition of Our Lady who pointed to the area and said it would be a happy and prosperous city. The gentleman took her word for it, platted the land, and named it after her. The church was closed but the pastor was next door outside the rectory tending his garden. He let me in to look around. Then I showed him where the church was highlighted in my book. He never heard of it, but thought it was “pretty cool”. Then he gave me a travelers blessing before I left. No matter how I’m feeling, being in a church and having these encounters reminds me that God is always with me.

I Found God today in sadness followed by peace.

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Family Meal

Today my son had his moving POD delivered. He, his sons, and a friend got it all unpacked. I decided that it would be most helpful to provide food. I rented a cute little VRBO house for a couple of days, knowing the chaos and stress of moving. I found my way to the grocery store and bought food to be used immediately. I made breakfast burritos and delivered them to my son’s house for lunch. After helping them unpack a bit, I went back to the house and cooked some more. I made shepherds pie for dinner and made myself chicken and veggies that will last for a couple of days. I felt very productive and my son and family really appreciated the food. They got the dining room table all set up, so everyone sat down together for dinner. I was glad I was able to provide them some good food and have everyone around the table sharing stories and laughing, especially since I won’t be experiencing this with them again for quite some time.

I Found God today having a family meal.