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Getting Bigger

Posted by eph21920 on July 30, 2026 in Baby, Faith, Family, Grateful, Life, Struggles

My son and daughter in law have been going to the doctor twice a week to have ultrasound checks on their baby. She has been very tiny for a long time and the doctor doesn’t really know why. She was in the 1 percentile for size, which is why they started monitoring her so often. They do developmental testing and such as well, and the baby is passing all of those. They take measurements every now and again to estimate how physically big she is. We have all been praying hard for the baby and for my son and his wife not to worry too much. We have put Lourdes holy water on mom’s belly a couple of times and she has received priestly blessings. I talked to my son and his wife today after their appointment. They were excited to tell me that the baby had a good growth spurt and is now estimated to be in the 8 percentile. That is still small, but it is a big gain from where she was. Everyone was grateful and encouraged by the good news.

I Found God today in my newest granddaughter’s growth spurt.

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Days God Gave

Posted by eph21920 on July 29, 2026 in Answer, Family, Life, Rest

I had some weird dreams last night. One of them was about packing books. There were people at the house moving things out and they were waiting for me to get the books packed, which was never ending. I would wake up and remember that I didn’t need to pack anything right now. Then I would go back to sleep and repeat the cycle. When I finally woke up in the morning, I was exhausted and had a headache. I felt like I had actually packed books all night long. I got myself moving and took a couple Tylenol. Part of me just wanted to go back to bed. But, one thing I have been aware of is that my life here is pretty short – and getting shorter. I am trying to live each day to the fullest, doing things that are meaningful. At the same time, I’m trying to listen to my body and take care of it. It’s a balance. Later in the day, I heard a song that reflected my feelings called, “Days God Gave“. Some of the lyrics are:


Hold on to these moments
They’re flying by so fast
Take the time with the ones you love
Like a chance you can’t get back
Make a million memories
So when you’re old and gray
All the faces in those photographs
Smile back at you and say
You didn’t let the days God gave you get away

So, today I got some groceries, cooked a bit, got more things out of the house, and spent some time with my brother just doing things. It was a good day. And I am looking forward to going to bed – hopefully for a more restful sleep.

I Found God today spending the day well, even though I didn’t really feel like it.

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Leaking Windows

Posted by eph21920 on July 28, 2026 in Friends, Grateful, Opportunity, Struggles

I was at an elderly couple’s house today helping them out when a thunderstorm rolled through. It has been such a long time since they have had any rain in their area, and we were wondering if it would actually happen. We could see the dark clouds coming closer and closer and hear the thunder drawing near. Finally, it started sprinkling. Then, bigger raindrops came down. Soon there was a torrential downpour. As the wife and I watched it pour outside the kitchen window, she noticed that on one side it looked like a waterfall as the water streamed down the outside of the window. I went over for a closer look and found that the floor was damp. I then realized that there was water coming in the window and the one directly above it. She called to her husband while I grabbed some towels. Both windowsills were full of water. As I sopped it up, the husband looked at the downspout outside under the windows and wondered if anything was coming out of it. When the rain slowed down, I went out to take a look. The downspout was completely clogged and vented into the ground. I got it all cleaned out and repositioned. A little while later, the second wave hit of heavy rain hit. The downspout was working a little better, but there was still rain leaking in the windows. We got bigger towels and I did the best I could to get everything situated before it was time for me to leave. Luckily, their son lives next door and they would be able to have him take a look when he returned from work. I was happy I was there to discover the problem and do what I could to help.

I Found God today being in the right place at the right time to be helpful.

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Friend’s Courage

Posted by eph21920 on July 27, 2026 in Begin, Faith, Friends, Life, New, Relationship, Struggles

I was talking with a friend of mine today who is nearing 80 years old. She is getting ready to move, which she is not looking forward to. She said she had hoped that her last move would have been her last one. That is what she had planned. Unfortunately, things took a turn for the worse at the place she is currently living. Evidently the people in charge are making things very difficult on the residents. Her new place kind of fell in her lap, so she acted upon it. She has everything in place and the more she talked about it, the better she felt about the whole thing. Even at her age, she has realized that she can still do hard and scary things. We talked about how hard it can be to make new friends. Her new apartment is actually brand new, so all the residents will be in the same situation. We then realized how exciting it can be and perhaps even easier since everyone will be looking to build community. I was very inspired by her courage and trust that all will work out.

I Found God today in a friend’s courage.

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Afternoon Tea

Posted by eph21920 on July 26, 2026 in Family, Food, Fun, Grateful, Happiness, Relationship

Today my son and his wife treated me and my daughter in law’s mom to tea at one of the local attractions. They were grateful for all the help we have been giving them and also thankful for all we will be doing in the near future. The summer tea menu was light and refreshing for the hot weather. I even brought back a treat for my brother – a Bacon, Cheddar, and Chive Scone with House-made Pepper Jelley. It was very fancy and fun. We took some photos beforehand on the grounds of the beautiful castle. My daughter in law wore a super cute dress that showed off her baby bump. She looked much happier than last I saw her as she had been in a lot of sciatica pain. I was so glad to hear that her chiropractor has been working wonders for her. It is hard to believe that she is scheduled to have the induction in 2 weeks. We talked a lot about upcoming baby things and birthing and such. Everyone is so excited to meet the little one in person. I was grateful for the relationship with my son, daughter in law, and her mom and for the lovely and delicious afternoon.

I Found God today enjoying time with family.

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Blessed By Community

Posted by eph21920 on July 25, 2026 in Food, Friends, Fun, Grateful, Home, Joy, Relationship

Today our community hosted a BBQ, so I made a delicious fruit salad to bring, my brother grabbed the chairs, and we headed over. Even though my brother is here sporadically, he knows a lot of the neighbors. Part of that is because he walks his dog around and meets people. Many of the residence are elderly, but everyone helped each other to make room and set up comfortable seating outside. I was glad there were some tents set up so we could have some shade from the blistering sun. The community honored the veterans before we ate. They gathered them together, took some photos, and gave them a token of appreciation. It was very thoughtful. We were all encouraged to wear patriotic clothing of some kind. I had a couple of t-shirts to choose from. I asked my brother if he had any, and he said he had not been able to find one that fits his style. So, he wore one of the t-shirts that he had designed with an alien hiding inside a cactus. On the drink table, there was a pile of shirts with a sign that said, “Please take one”. I got my drink and sat down. Soon after, I saw my brother coming towards the group wearing a new shirt. He went over to the woman who designed them and had them made and thanked her. Then I saw what he was wearing. It was a patriotic t-shirt honoring the Independence Day of our country. There was a flag on it and a sasquatch. That really did fit my brother’s style. I told my brother that the woman who made the shirt also make our community bulletin boards. She decorates them each month with the appropriate theme and also includes a sasquatch. It’s like a little search and find each month. In all it was a fun time with great food and good conversation. I am so grateful to be able to live in this community that has been such a support to me and my family.

I Found God today in the wonderful community that I live in.

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Special Rosary

Posted by eph21920 on July 24, 2026 in Faith, Friends, Grateful, Joy, Prayer

When I was visiting a friend today, she asked if I would pray the rosary with her. I told her I would be happy to and she handed me a fancy rosary. It had blue crystal beads. There was also a bead on each side of the cross – 4 total – that spun. It was a beautiful piece. I asked where she got it. She said when she had an aneurysm and was in the hospital, her mother came and pinned the rosary to her hospital gown so that she would always have it with her. It was a very special memory. I was grateful and felt blessed to pray with my friend and to use the rosary that meant so much to her.

I Found God today in a heartfelt story and in the joy of praying with a friend.

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Swapping Stories

Posted by eph21920 on July 23, 2026 in Connected, Friends, Life, Present, Relationship

Today I visited with a couple people and told them about the sale of the cabin and how hard it was. They were empathetic and had stories of their own. One talked about his mom having to sell the house he grew up in. Before the closing, everyone had an opportunity to go in to the house and take out the things that they wanted. My friend said he found many things he wanted, but didn’t really need or have the space for, so left a lot of things behind. That was difficult and sad for him. Another friend told me of having to sell their family farm of 160 acres. There had been 4 generations that had lived there and farmed the land. My friend went to the same small school that his father went to, so their roots went deep. To sell, they divided the land into 3 sections. He knew 2 of the buyers, but not the third. He described how hard it was to break up the property and hand it over to others. I think most people probably had a similar experience. I was happy to talk to my friends and share the stories and feelings, to be connected.

I Found God today connecting with friends.

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The Closing

Posted by eph21920 on July 22, 2026 in Grateful, Home, Life, Present

My realtor picked me up this morning and we headed over to the title company to close on the sale of the cabin. The buyer’s realtor came as well, even though the buyers had signed their part of the documents electronically yesterday. It was nice to have her there as we got a better picture of the family who purchased it. They are from another state and came here to vacation and look at property, not really anticipating buying right away. The realtor took them all around the nearby mountain areas and they looked at many options. Evidently, when they came to our cabin, they fell in love with it and decided to buy it. All through the process we were told how happy they were to be able to make it theirs. The realtor said she told them about our conversation yesterday and that we really wanted a family to love and enjoy the cabin as much as we did. When she told them that, the mom started crying just like I did. It really does seem like this was all meant to be and has been directed to come together. After everything was signed, the realtor handed me 2 envelopes, 1 for me and 1 for my brother. We looked at them later. The buyers had given us each a gift card and a hand written note thanking us for the work we did on the property. I had also shown the realtor the house information that we put together and left in an old apple basket that my parents got years ago and used to put things in to bring to and from the cabin. In the note it said that the buyers planned on having a memory book to go in the apple basket. As difficult as it is to let go of this cabin, it is such a gift to know that the family who bought it are grateful and thoughtful people.

I Found God today in grateful buyers of our beloved cabin.

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Years of Enjoyment

Posted by eph21920 on July 21, 2026 in Family, Grateful, Home, Joy, Life, Struggles

My brother and I finished emptying and cleaning the cabin today. As we were working, the buyer’s realtor stopped over to walk through. The buyers live in another state, so she was relaying the details to them. She said they are planning on the cabin being a vacation home and eventually their primary residence. She said they will love it and care for it and that they are good people. Trying to hold back the tears I told her that’s what we really want is for a family to love it as much as we did. Later in the day my brother and I talked about how we enjoyed the place for 50 years and how it is so difficult to let it go. We also remembered that my dad talked several times about wanting to sell it so us kids wouldn’t have the burden of it. In the end, we are completing his wishes. As we were driving out for the last time, I stopped at our closest friend there and said goodbye. We shared a good cry. My brother and I made it back to my house just after dark with vehicles full of more stuff. Hard to believe. But that’s for another day. We both took some Tylenol and are looking forward to a good night sleep.

I Found God today remembering and being grateful for the long time we were able to enjoy the cabin.

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