I thought I had scheduled a Mass intention for my dad to be celebrated yesterday. However, when I looked at the church bulletin, it was actually today. That turned out fine, because I definitely would not have wanted to go out in the weather yesterday. When I got to the church today, I saw a friend there. I sat with her and we hugged. I knew it was an important anniversary for her as well, but couldn’t remember for sure. We talked after Mass and she confirmed that her husband died exactly 1 year before my dad. She was there remembering him and I was there remembering my dad. It was also the anniversary of the death of another friend’s mother. We exchanged notes of grief and encouragement. I think when we are going through something very difficult it gives us empathy for those experiencing a similar situation. And at the same time, we feel the love and encouragement from others instead of feeling like we’re alone. I certainly felt blessed.

I Found God today sharing grief.