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Celebrating 18

Yesterday was my nephew’s 18th birthday. We were unable to celebrate it together because of the distance and the fact that he had his day all planned out. I sent him a text message first thing in the morning. Then my mom, dad, and I called and sang Happy Birthday to him. He was out the door early to spend time with his girlfriend and family. I saw some pictures today. He, his girlfriend, her brother and father all went to the spa and got a pedicure and went to a movie. His girlfriend made a red velvet cake which is his favorite. Back at home, he had sushi with his mom and swisher sweets. He also opened a time capsule that he put together 11 years ago when he was in boy scouts. It included some newspaper articles, comics, a picture of him and a piece of string that showed how tall he was at the time. I did not remember him being in boy scouts, but do remember him at that age. He was a sensitive kid, cared deeply about others, and had a contagious smile. He has had his share of struggles through the years, but looking at the pictures of him turning 18, he is still sensitive, cares deeply about others, and has a beautiful contagious smile – there is just a little more hair around it now. I love him dearly.

I Found God today in realizing the growth and life of my nephew.

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Silent Initiation Goes Beyond Words

At the beginning of Mass this evening, the priest said that there were two young men being initiated into the church during the service. I always love being a witness to such an event – it invigorates my faith. I noticed a woman at the front who was interpreting in sign language. I took a look at the first few pews where the young men and their friends and family were sitting. There were several young people and many children. It was clear that the majority of the group was deaf. Some of the adults were praying along in sign language. In the congregation, I noticed many of the young children fascinated by this new demonstration at the front of the church and tried to mimic the movements. The priest is also able to communicate with sign language and when he spoke, he used it as well. When it came time to baptize the young men, the whole group made their way to the church entrance where the Baptismal font is located. The young men appeared to be twins – or at least brothers. They were each wearing a brown garment. The priest entered and stood in the large font. The two young men removed their brown robes signifying the removal of sin and entered the font as well. They knelt as the priest baptized them and poured the water over their heads. Then came time for Confirmation. They remained in the font as the priest anointed each of them with the sweet smelling Chrism oil; sealing them with the gifts of the Holy Spirit. The newly Baptized then went to dry off and returned wearing a new white robe, symbolizing how Christ has made them clean and new. They came to the front of the congregation and the priest explained that the two were in fact deaf and showed us all how to applaud in sign language. The young men beamed as they saw the support and happiness from all those around them. It was very moving. The priest continued with the prayers in both audible words and sign. Then it came time for the two young men to receive their first Holy Communion. I could see the joy on their faces as they returned to their seats and knelt to pray. At the end of Mass, there was one more round of applause for the new Catholics. It was hard for me not to clap, but again a thing of beauty to be a part of everyone cheering in sign language and seeing the happiness it brought to the young men. I thought about the senses that we have and the tradition of celebrating the Sacraments in the church. Even though these young men could not hear, they were able to experience the fullness of the initiation with the rest of their senses – they felt the water rushing over their body, they could smell the sweet fragrance of the oil, they could see the transition from brown to white as well as see the words used, they could understand what was happening with their minds, and they received Christ through the taste and consumption of Holy Communion. And even more than these, there is our spirit. That encounter they had today goes way beyond human senses, words, body and mind. It brought tears to my eyes as I felt the excitement right along with them.

I Found God today in sharing an experience of two unique young men being initiated into the Faith.

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Tour of the House

A few weeks back, my son purchased his first home. It needed to have some work done before he moved his family in, so he worked hard on it along with others including my other son who will be staying with him for the summer. Within a few days they got everyone and everything moved in. Today they sent some pictures of them enjoying the swimming pool that is in the back yard. Then we connected via video chat and I got a tour of the house. My younger grandson was happy to show me all the tricks he could do on all the furniture. I thought it was funny. My son – – not so much. I got to see my daughter-in-law whose belly continues to grow with the baby inside. The home is very nice and has plenty of room for another little one. They have also made nice accommodations for my other son. While I miss them tremendously, it was wonderful to connect, see them all and the new house, and know that things are going very well for all of them.

I Found God today in connecting with my kids and seeing how they are all getting along.

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Sacred Heart of Jesus

For the past 9 days, I have been saying a novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Today was the feast day, so I got myself to Mass first thing in the morning. The scripture readings all tied together the amazing love that Christ – God – has for us. His heart overflows with love for us, no matter what we might do or think or feel. The first reading was from Hosea. The priest explained more about Hosea. He was a prophet – he heard God and relayed messages from Him to the people. At one point, Hosea’s wife committed adultery. God told Hosea to take her back and compared the relationship to the people and God. The Israelites at the time were not listening to God, but He loved them and would always take them back. Hosea was to live as an example of that kind of love. It is the same with us now. We are “looking for love in all the wrong places”. God reveals Himself to us in many ways, but we are so quick to walk away from Him and do our own thing. But, the Sacred Heart of Jesus cannot love us any less. It is completely contradictory to what we hear from the society and it is beautiful. Another scripture that tried to explain this love was from Ephesians, “…. that you, rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the holy ones what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.” One thing that I prayed for during the Novena was inner peace. I was SO peaceful today, that I took an hour and a half nap in the afternoon! That never happens – and it felt great.

I Found God today in the truth of the overflowing love of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.

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No Longer a Child

My bedroom is on the lower level of the house. I am very happy to have a window, but the view is of the window well. We have been talking about what to do to dress it up when my mom found pictures of “fairy gardens” in one of her magazines. This is basically a miniature garden set in a pot with assorted little scenes. Interestingly, a few days later, my cousin dropped my parents an email including a picture of a fairy garden that she was working on that my parents had given to her mother. Then my sister sent me an ad for a class to make one of the gardens hosted by a local garden shop. As I looked at the ad, I thought I recognized the name of the teacher and did a little research. The teacher was in fact the son of some friends I had when I lived in this area previously. He was just a little kid when I moved away. I signed up for the class super excited to make the garden and connect with the young man. Unfortunately, I had to back out of the class as my dad was just getting home from the hospital. Today, my mom and I decided to get a pot of flowers to put on the front porch and headed over to the garden shop. We told the lady at the counter that we were looking forward to making a fairy garden, but could not make it. She said the teacher was there and called him over. It was the young man that I knew as a young boy. We chatted a bit about where the assorted family members were now and I knew I was staring at him. I apologized and said it was just so funny that I remember him when he was little, so he squatted down low to see if that was better. He did look pretty much the same, just taller! It was pretty funny.

I Found God today in the interesting circumstances to connect with a young man and seeing how he grew from the small boy I remembered into a young adult.

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Inspirational Improvement

You know how some people just seem to have more than their fair share of struggles? I have felt this way about a good friend of mine who has chronic health issues, found herself going through a divorce a few years ago, and has terrible problems with her children. The last time I saw her, she was using a walker and not driving. At the same time she has incredible faith. She loves the Lord and hangs on to Him for dear life. She is constantly saying a novena of some kind and always for other people. While she has every right to wallow in pity, she refuses to do so. She is constantly thinking of others and what she can do to help. I talked with her today and was shocked to hear her say that she is now walking with her dog about 3 miles a day. She also has been driving herself around and taking trips. I could not believe my ears – but then again I guess it should not surprise me. She refuses to give in and/or give up. Even though she still will need additional surgery at some point she moves forward each day, talking to God, and following His lead. She is inspirational to say the least.

I Found God today in the incredible improvement of a friend with ongoing struggles.

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Silence

Today I read a little quote that really struck me by Matthew Kelly, “Things start to make sense in the classroom of silence. Whatever it is you are trying to make sense of, are you giving it the silence it needs?” I thought about this and realized how difficult it can be for me to quiet myself – especially into silence. I keep myself pretty busy. I can always find something to do and have a dozen other things waiting in the wings. When I do feel like relaxing, I usually do it in front of the TV – mindless noise. Or I can get on the computer and find an endless supply of social media and videos to keep my mind engaged. But to sit with God in silence is hard. I do take time in the morning to really pray, but even then I am full of chatter – good noise, but noise none the less. Yet I can remember times when I was still and quiet and allowed God to fill me with His grace and peace. There is nothing else like it. I need to do that more.

I Found God today in a reminder to be silent to experience Him on a deeper level.

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Talking With a Friend

Today I was happy to get a phone call from a far away friend. A while back she told me that her mother had just been diagnosed with cancer. She was able to spend some time with her as she started her chemotherapy and radiation. She said it was difficult to see her mom struggling not just physically but emotionally too. I could empathize with her. At this point her mother is doing well and awaiting tests to see how effective the treatment has been. She also had talked with her mom recently and she was going through her list of things she was grateful for. I thought that was a great attitude and was glad to hear that she was feeling alright at this time. We caught up on the rest of the news from our families and I started to get the update on mutual friends. I suddenly realized it was about dinner time and that I had nothing ready to go. We had talked for an hour and a half and could have gone longer. I really enjoyed catching up with her. Oh – and for dinner I heated up some frozen leftovers, then got frozen yogurt.

I Found God today in the joy of talking with friend and hearing that her mother is ok right now.

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Corpus Christi

I was so happy to wake from a sound sleep this morning and feeling better. Both my mom and dad did some heavy napping today and things are getting back to our “normal”. We did not make it to church in the morning and as I was reading the local Catholic newspaper, I realized it is the Feast of Corpus Christi – or the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. I thought of the wonderful processions that we had where I used to live and decided I would get to the evening Mass. I was glad I did. The scripture readings included Exodus 24:3-8 about the covenant that Moses and the Israelites made with God. It was a primitive and rather barbaric ritual using an animal sacrifice. Another scripture was Mark 14:12-16, 22-26 when Jesus made the “new covenant” by sacrificing His own body and blood. In this scripture, Jesus says, “This is my Body” and “This is my Blood”. The priest pointed out that this is the only time where Jesus says “This is .. .” At all other times when He is trying to explain the spiritual world, He says it “is like . . .”. Catholics take this so seriously, that we believe the Presence of Christ exists in the host and wine after the prayers have been said by the priest. It truly is nothing short of a miracle, yet this is what God provides for us. The priest said that when we receive the Chalice at Communion, it is like shaking hands with God and making the covenant with Him. We are saying, “You are my God and I will follow You.” I thought of that as I received Communion. As I prayed, I thanked God that my dad was home and feeling so much better.

I Found God today in Holy Communion and in my dad feeling better.

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Selfless Sister

I guess I was more stressed than I realized with everything that has happened the past couple of days as I woke up early this morning with a splitting headache. I could feel the stress working up and did what I could to reduce the toll it was taking on my body, but evidently it was just too much. I tried what I knew to do when I get a migraine, but it just got worse. I managed to talk briefly to my mom, get my dad’s medication in order for the day and call my sister who lives a little over an hour away. She came on over and took care of things for the rest of the day. I spent the majority of it in my dark room with a cold washcloth on my forehead. By late afternoon I was finally feeling good enough to function. My dad seemed to be doing pretty good, checking his blood pressure often which was in a decent range. I was so grateful that my sister is close and was willing and able to come on over.

I Found God today in my selfless sister who put aside her plans for the weekend to come and take care of everyone.