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Ready For Rest

It has been one week since my mom has been home from the hospital. In this period of time, she has had 4 doctor’s appointments, 3 visits from a physical therapist, 1 visit from the occupational therapist, 1 visit from a nurse, and countless phone calls from various medical places just to check up on her. When she first arrived home, my dad and I took turns taking her to the bathroom, getting her settled in the bed for a nap or for the night, helping her stand up and sit down, and following her as she moved from one place in the house to another. One morning, my poor sleepless dad tagged me in saying, “Yay! The day shift has arrived!” Today, we feel comfortable letting her go around in her walker on her own taking care of what she needs to do as she has improved so much. Her determination and strong will never cease to amaze me. Now, we are looking forward to a little rest from activity.

I Found God today as I look back over the week and realize how much my mother has improved and what a blessing it has been to have so many people watching over her.

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We Are Blessed

I made a quick trip to the grocery store today. I recognized the man at the checkout who I had seen before working in the produce. He was always cheery and chatty. When it came to my turn, he asked what good thing I was up to today. The question caught me off guard and I had to think about it for a moment. It was funny as my mom and I were just talking about how important it is to think about the good things and try not to dwell on the bad. the checkout guy shared a thought he had heard before. He said if you have some money in the bank – doesn’t have to be a lot, but some – and if you have some food in your refrigerator – doesn’t have to be a lot, but some – then you are better off than about 75% of the population of the world. That is reason enough to have a good day. There are several versions to this thought that can be found online, but the point remains the same. It was a good reminder for me.

I Found God today in a good reminder of how blessed I actually am.

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Better Than Text

Usually the only mail I get is bills, solicitations, or advertising. I was excited when I saw an envelope hand addressed to me. It was from my good friend who I saw in the hospital when my mom was getting ready to go into surgery. Her sister was getting ready to go into surgery at the same time. It was strange to meet there to say the least. Her sister is fine now, by the way. So, as I turned the envelope over to open it, there was some writing near the flap that said, “Isn’t this better than getting a text?” Yes, yes it was. My friend had sent me a card just to let me know that I was on her mind. It was somewhat humorous, so it brought me laughter, joy, and a warm heart. I did text her to say thank you.

I Found God today in a thoughtful card sent by a good friend.

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Prayer and Peace

I have been talking to God a lot over the past week and a half since my mom’s heart attack and additional medical issues. But I have been completely off my usual routine and what I would call my “formal” prayer time. Later this morning I decided it was time to get my room cleaned up and some laundry done. As I was tidying up, I put on some of my favorite Christian music. Then I spied a prayer card with one of my favorite pictures of the Sacred Heart of Jesus on it. I immediately felt a deep sense of peace wash over me. I stopped what I was doing, picked up my little stack of prayers, and started going through them. Then I read some scripture. I don’t know how long I spent, but it was a welcomed respite. My laundry isn’t all done and my room isn’t all clean, but I felt like I was able to continue the day with some stress lifted from my soul.

I Found God today in some formal prayer time and a sense of His peace.

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Her Name Was Mary

As my mom continues on her road to recovery, we have set up Home Health Care. My dad has struggled with the concept and having many different people treating my mom. Today a nurse was scheduled to come in and check the surgery incision and drain site. Her name was Mary. I prayed pretty much all last night that she would not only be a caring nurse, but that she would help my dad have some peace with this whole arrangement. I asked for the intercession of Mary, the mother of Jesus. I felt it was no coincidence that they had the same name. This morning as we talked of the visit, my dad said he wondered if the nurse Mary was Catholic. When she arrived, it was obvious that she had a very calm demeanor. When she entered my parents room, she commented how beautiful the large rosary was that is hanging on the wall. My dad asked if she was Catholic. She said she was and that her father is a priest. Now there’s something you don’t hear very often. She told us that after her mother died, her father went back to take theology courses and eventually became a priest. After that, she pretty much said and did all the right things. She assured us that my mom’s wounds are healing well. She said things that were very meaningful to me and my parents that she probably didn’t even know about. The whole visit was very comforting and calming. We were all very grateful.

I Found God today in a visit from Mary that brought peace to the household.

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Making Meals

My sister who is here for the weekend spent most of yesterday making out a menu and shopping for food to put together some freezer bag dinners for us. She was up bright and early this morning chopping vegetables. Once she got all the onions, garlic, zucchini, peppers, parsley, cilantro, ginger, (probably forgetting something) lemon and orange zest and juice prepared, we went to work assembling. Using the meal plan and recipes she found, we put a cup of this, a teaspoon of that, a handful of this, sometimes a can of that, and some meat all together in a freezer bag. We made 18 wonderful dinners all self contained. All I have to do is decide what to make for dinner, thaw out a bag, and follow the directions on the recipe. I was incredibly grateful for all the time and energy she spent to help make things a little easier.

I Found God Today in my sister’s loving generosity, companionship, and support.

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Experience Speaks Volumes

Today a physical therapist came to the house and asked my mom tons of questions to get her Home Health Care set up. The whole thing was a little disconcerting to my dad – first of all, there were so many unnecessary questions that were asked. The therapist explained that is a result of Medicare and the information the providers are required to record. Then the therapist explained some of the additional people who would be coming in to help my mom in her recovery such as a nurse and occupational therapist. It was all a bit much for my dad. Luckily, my sister who broke her leg last year was here. She has had the same type of services and questionnaires, so she was able to speak of her own personal experience. She also works indirectly in the medical field. She said it was like a rehab center coming to the house instead of mom needing to go to a rehab center. My dad still did not appreciate all the private information that was “required” to be collected by Medicare, which I totally understand. But I was so grateful that my sister was able to make a little more sense of all that was going on.

I Found God today in the presence and knowledge of my sister.

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Back Home-Again

After another 3 day hospital stay, my mom came back home today. She has been through so much, it amazes me how she keeps on going. This recent stay was the result of stroke-like symptoms, though not as bad as the last one. After many tests, the doctors feel she did not have another new stroke, but likely a seizure stemming from the stroke site that occurred in October. Therefore it presents many of the same symptoms. They said that it is not unusual especially with trauma to the body and some medications which can make a person more susceptible. So, we’re back home today, ready to work on recovery. Naturally, my dad and I have been super stressed with worry and lack of sleep. I was so grateful that one of my sisters was here all day yesterday, and the other is going to be here all weekend. Family is everything.

I Found God today in my mom coming back home and the support of sisters.

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Connected Through Prayer

Well, my mom ended up back in the hospital late last night. We figure she had a small stroke. The doctors are doing their whole neurological workup to see if they can determine what happened and what might be done to prevent another one. My poor mom. In the midst of struggling with my own thoughts about what she is going through, I received an email from a friend who is going on a pilgrimage to several chapels in Canada and asked if there were any prayer intentions I would like him to bring along. I answered promptly and asked if he would please pray for my mother and my dad and me as well. It was a good reminder that worrying is to no avail and that we are all connected in some way.

I Found God today in a well timed email that resulted in feeling connected through prayer.

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So Far, So Good

A while back, my mom had scheduled an appointment for today with the vascular doctor who is checking her carotid artery. The vascular surgeon who performed mom’s surgery the other day works with the team. She spoke with them and they were able to follow up from the surgery. So, at the appointment that I took her to today, the doctor reported that the carotid artery looks fine and she checked the surgery site. She answered some questions that I had. You know, I thought I understood what was going on and how to care for everything, but once we got through a night, there were things that needed clarification. She reassured my mom that everything looks like it is healing well. I was grateful for the encouragement and that we had this appointment set up already.

I Found God today in a well timed doctor’s appointment that resulted in comforting words and helpful advice.