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Family Reconnected

My travelling brother made his way south to our cousin’s house where he met up with our aunt who is also visiting there. She had some problems with her i-pad and was hoping that my brother would be able to help her with it. Evidently it took him a few taps here and there and they were able to give us a Facetime call. It was fun to see them all together. It has been a few years since my brother saw our aunt and several more since he saw our cousin. But they all were talking like old friends. That’s the beauty of family.

I Found God today as my brother reconnected with extended family.

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Kids Are Kids

I was nervous today going into a new group of people beginning a new ministry at the church. Some teens and young adults who are in foster homes met with a group of adults such as myself to make a big spaghetti supper for their families. This was the first time the organization had planned such an event. The goal is not only to get the kids together and perhaps learn something about cooking, but also to possibly make connections with other adults who can help them launch into the next phase of their young adult life. I learned that most of these kids really struggle at this point and many end up homeless. I just don’t think it is right that they had difficult situations growing up not by their own choice and because of that, have trouble just surviving. Because this was the pilot program and first time tried, none of us knew what to expect. Yesterday I received step by step directions for each “team” to prepare the meal. It was all very well planned out and organized. The kids and the adults were divided into teams and assigned a part of the meal to prepare. The sauce recipe we used was the pastor’s mother’s, so there was only a little pressure. There were a lot of people in the kitchen and a lot of chatter going on – but good chatter. The kids had all different interests and many were eager to talk about them. They brought a certain energy that only teens can offer. It seemed so familiar as youth ministry to me and I became very comfortable and enjoyed the interaction. Although things took longer than anticipated, the meal all came together at the end and was delicious. Each person had played their small part and reaped the benefit of their teamwork. The families who came to join were as diverse as the youth themselves. One family consisted of a mom, a dad, and 9 kids who ran the gamut of races and colors. But that didn’t seem to matter to any of them as they interacted like a natural, loving family. It was a thing of beauty. I realized that kids are kids and at the heart of it all is the same thing for each one of us – we long for and need unconditional love, acceptance, someone to trust, and to be able to contribute to the world around us.

I Found God today in teens on their journey, caring and generous adults, and loving families.

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Uplifting Words

I decided to hit the grocery store bright and early this morning to get it accomplished so I could enjoy the beautiful day. The employees at the supermarket are all very friendly and helpful, which makes for a pleasant experience. Once I had unloaded all my items onto the conveyor, the chatting began with the usual “How are you today?” We talked about the wonderful weather forecast for the day and looking forward to enjoying it. The young man bagging my groceries said that there was air in his lungs today, so he was very blessed. I have seen him before and he always has a smile on his face, a positive attitude and words of encouragement. It was a very uplifting way to begin the day. And I did enjoy the beautiful day by driving up in the mountains.

I Found God today in a young man’s positive attitude.

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The Shopping Spree

My mom lost a lot of weight when she started getting very ill a couple of years ago. Since then, she has been wearing clothes that are too big, but she hasn’t had the energy or stamina to go clothes shopping. It is just too much to walk around a store, find a style she likes in the right size, and try things on. During the past year my sisters and I have bought clothes for her, doing our best to guess at the correct sizes and styles. Some of them worked, most of them didn’t. I tried to take mental note of what the problems were and what would fit properly. Today I went to a store and found racks of clearance clothing. I decided to try again and sorted through the items. I picked out a couple of things that looked good and brought them home. As usual, some of the clothes fit and some didn’t. I wanted to exchange the incorrect items right away and asked my mom if she wanted to come and pick things out for herself. I had already been through the store and knew exactly where to find the different pants and tops. She did want to go, so we made our way back. I showed her where I found the sizes and styles that I thought would work best. It was much easier to make the decisions when she was there, and more enjoyable too. She even found a jacket that she has been wanting for quite some time. It was a short enough trip so my mom didn’t get exhausted or overwhelmed. When we got home, she gave my dad a fashion show. I was so happy that she was able to have a productive shopping spree.

I Found God today in an enjoyable outing with my mom.

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The Beginning of Virtues

My parents and I were talking this morning as my dad was struggling with his hearing aids. My mom remembered her grandfather who lived with her family for the last few years of his life. He was mostly deaf and did not understand English. So, when someone wanted to make sure he heard them, they had to yell in German. He didn’t have the luxury of hearing aids. My mom said she often thinks of him and how hard it must have been for him. The majority of the time he did not know what was going on around him. My mom talked about the home he lived in when he came from Germany. It was a large home across from a lighthouse. There were several relatives who live in the house – most of the time more than one family. The conversation gave me additional insight into my mom and how her compassion, empathy, generosity, and thriftiness were nurtured when she was young.

I Found God today in new insight into some of my mom’s virtues.

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Powerful Reminder

I have been participating in a “retreat” held in one of classrooms in the church for the past few weeks. It is a 10-week session called “Consoling the Heart of Jesus” by Fr. Michael Gaitley. It is pretty deep theology, but I love it. Tonight we finished a few minutes early so we could go upstairs into the church where Eucharistic Adoration was being held. I went in and realized that it included contemporary praise and worship music. It was also being offered in place of the usual Jr. High and High School class and the parents were encouraged to attend. The church was full of youth and adults singing and praying. I was immediately reminded of the many times I was able to introduce and experience Adoration with youth that I taught. I thought of the wonderful and sometimes life changing effect that it was to witness the real, true presence of Jesus Christ. It is like a taste of Heaven. I prayed for all the youth I had ministered to and all the youth and families in that church. I had my own little peace of Heaven and was so grateful for the unexpected surprise.

I Found God today in remembering His powerful and peaceful presence.

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I Have a Nun

Today I got a call from my son in college. It is always good to hear from him. He is trying to figure out exactly how to schedule his summer and hopefully final year in school while completing his master’s thesis. We went back and forth discussing some different options when he said, “Oh, I don’t think I told you that I have a nun.” “A what?” “A nun” “A nun – N-U-N?” “Yes” “Where did you meet her?” “Downtown across from the cathedral.” “How did that happen?” “I drove there.” After I refused to play 20 questions, he told me the story. The Newman Catholic Community there on campus was offering a retreat for Lent. My son plays music for the Mass celebrations, so he knows the campus minister very well. According to him, she strongly encouraged him to participate in the retreat, so he signed up. The retreat involves reading specific scripture and meeting 4 times with one of the sisters who live downtown. He had already met with “his nun” once. I asked if she was young. He said she is older. I asked if she was full of elderly holy wisdom. He said she was hilarious and also full of wisdom. It is funny, as I was reading my Lent meditation this morning, I was wondering if my son was doing any type of specific devotion. He has a crazy busy schedule this semester and, as I said, is trying to get everything in place for his near future. I was so happy and proud of him for making the time to deepen his relationship with God. I am sure it will be well worth the effort.

I Found God today in my son’s extra commitment to God during Lent.

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God Was Already There

So, I had to make a potentially difficult phone call this afternoon. I thought of it shortly after I woke up and the anxiety set in. I prayed about it and after only a bit I felt that God was already in the situation and not to worry. I thanked God for the insight and tried to let it go and just trust in Him. When it came time to make the call, I prayed some more as I dialed. I was shocked as to how well the conversation went. It was truly completely unexpected. I thanked God immensely once I hung up. I was so glad to have dealt with the issue and have it taken care of in a more than positive way.

I Found God today in an unexpectedly positive situation.

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Strange Scripture

Today at church, one of the strangest scriptures to me was read. It was the story of God making his covenant with Abram from Gensesis 15. God told him that he would give him as many descendants as the stars, and give him land. Abram asked how he would know that this was true. God told him to get some animals and cut them in half. I remember when I first heard this story a couple of years ago, I was so confused, dismayed, and appalled by this suggestion. But then I learned that this was a normal way of making a covenant with someone at that time. Basically, they would sacrifice animals signifying that if either party would were to break the promise, they would end up the same way. So, God came to Abram in a way that was familiar to him, that he understood. I think He does the same thing for us now. Sometimes we think God is nowhere to be found. Perhaps we are not paying attention. I do think He shows Himself in grandeur from time to time to certain people. But mostly He is present in the familiar – in a phone call or text from a friend you were just thinking about, reaching out to someone in need at just the right time, encouraging words that you needed to hear, in the written words of the Bible, and in the beauty of nature. Thank God we do not have to make animal sacrifices to understand God’s immense love. Through Jesus Christ, He made the promise that each of us can be with Him forever. It is up to us to acknowledge Him or not.

I Found God today in promises He made.

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A Friend’s Big Birthday

My mom’s close friend had the big 80 birthday today. Her daughters planned a wonderful party for her, so I took my mom. Unfortunately, my dad was a little under the weather and was unable to go. We met up with the group of family and good friends at one of the birthday girl’s favorite restaurants for lunch. Her three daughters were there to help celebrate. One of them even flew in from out of state. When I was younger, our families would get together for significant celebrations such as marked birthdays and anniversaries, but I had not seen the children for many years. It was fun and interesting catching up with them. One of them said the last time she saw me I had long curly hair and was wearing jeans and a blue down coat. That was me in high school. I was pleasantly surprised, though, as to the natural flow of the conversations. My mom’s friend comes to visit, so I knew enough about the girls and it was great to see them in person. Each of them found a different path in life – of course – but they all had a beautiful, caring heart. It is funny how when you’re young, you really don’t know what someone’s future holds – not even your own. It was a wonderful party with amazing food and my mom had a great time. She and the birthday girl have been good friends for about 40 years now – definitely a meaningful celebration.

I Found God today by celebrating a beautiful family friend and seeing that beauty passed to her daughters.