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Housewarming

Today we celebrated the 4th of July with a family BBQ and potluck at my son’s house. As with most good get togethers, there was lots of laughing and way too much food. My brother who does not live in the area called so he could join in the festivities. My son was able to show off his new apartment to the rest of the family. He bought a new grill just for the occasion and did a great job cooking the chicken, burgers, and dogs. We gave it a proper breaking in. It was another fun first as my son hosted the family party.

I Found God today enjoying family.

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Year’s Recovery

Today’s Facebook reminder popped up with the post that I wrote when my mom had her heart attack last year. We had actually been talking about it over the past few days. So much has happened in the year. We were all very worried for my mom – including the doctors. As I reflect on the events and rehab experiences that she has been through, it truly is an act of grace that she has recovered as well as she has. At her last primary care doctor’s appointment, he said that she is back to her regular base line. We are just truly amazed and grateful.

I Found God today reflecting on the past year’s events and my mom’s recovery.

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Song for the Unsung Hero

This morning in church before Mass started, the choir sang a patriotic song called, “Song for the Unsung Hero”. Towards the end, the song moved into, “My country ’tis of thee . . .” At this point, people in the congregation started singing which was to be expected. But what was surprising is that people also began to stand up until the entire church full was standing and singing, “America”. It was beautiful and brought tears to my eyes.

I Found God today in a patriotic song and moment.

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Brass Band

We went up to the cabin today and spent a little time in the nearby town. They were having their 4th of July festivities which included live music. We sat and listened as the band started playing. They were pretty good, but what I enjoyed most was hearing the trumpets and saxophone. I just love the sound of live brass instruments and could have stayed for hours.

I Found God today in music.

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Attentive Sales Rep

The old dishwasher at the cabin finally gave up a couple of weeks ago. Today my mom and I decided to buy a new one. We had already done some research thanks to the Consumer Report and input from my brother who is spending the summer at the cabin. When we got to the appliance section in the store, there were a couple of sales people sitting together and chatting. Before we got to them I was wondering if someone would offer to help us or not. When I’m shopping with my mom, we move pretty slowly and it can be hard to tell if we are looking at something or just passing through. It is always interesting to me to see how the sales people respond. As we just passed the group, one of the ladies asked if we were finding everything OK. I told her we were looking for a dishwasher and she took it from there. She mostly talked to my mom, which I very much appreciated. Because my mom has Parkinson’s disease, her facial expressions are not always apparent and people tend to dismiss her. But this particular sales woman treated her with the respect that she deserves. Occasionally I had to repeat things to my mom, but other than that, she made the decision and the purchase. We both had a great experience.

I Found God today in an attentive sales woman who treated my mom with respect.

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Move Over

My mom and I talked to my sister tonight. She worked hard to get her place sold and everything taken care of. The last few days before the closing were a crazy whirlwind. After my son and I helped her, she said she would be able to take care of the rest, so we left. The day before closing, she went to the place one last time to get the remaining few things out of the house. She was able to pack up her son’s SUV which had been in the shop and make it out of the house just before the cleaners came in. She was on the road for only about 15 minutes when the vehicle overheated. Luckily my other sister who lives in the area was able to rescue her and the cooler of food from the refrigerator among other items. There were several other things that happened that just added to the stress of the whole ordeal. The next day the sale happened. My sister was so relieved to have the papers signed and cash in the bank. The day after the closing, she flew out to visit her son in the Navy and spent the weekend with him. One of the pictures she sent was that of a red convertible Camaro. Evidently, the rental company didn’t have the car she reserved, so that is what she got to drive around the coast in. I felt that might have made up for the bad car experience just 2 days before. The pictures reflected how happy she and her son were. After the long weekend, she was back to work. Now she is in her new apartment with a new sofa that she has always wanted and trying to unpack a little at a time. My mom and I were so happy for her that the stress of her house selling ordeal was over, she had a great weekend, and now she can be more relaxed.

I Found God today in joy for my sister.

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Meaningful Old School

Today I went to a BBQ with the Fostering Hope program. The event was held at the Catholic school that I attended when I was in first grade. I have driven by it a couple of times but this is the first time I had actually been back on the grounds. As I looked around, I remembered the white cement wall that separated the play area from the street. It seemed a lot smaller now than it did then. Everything else looked somewhat familiar, but not as clear as that large white wall. What I do remember though perhaps more so was the “feel” of the place. I know I always felt safe there. It had the same kind of spiritual, peaceful environment today. At the party, one of the girls told us about her recent experience applying for a college scholarship. She and a handful of other candidates were treated to a weekend in California including hotel, meals, and even a trip to Disneyland. She, and the group she was with, received the scholarship and much more. The private donor creates a community for the youth, including an internship and mentoring program. She is an older youth and has done so much work basically on her own to put herself on the path to success. A friend and I were talking a little later about what an inspiration she and many of the other youth are to us. If I were in her situation, I am not sure I would have the stamina or attitude to accomplish as much as she already has. I am so glad for this new opportunity for her that she admits, “will change her life”. It was pretty special for me to be in this safe haven and hear the story of a young woman who is getting a much deserved helping hand.

I Found God today in a peaceful place and a beautiful story of a new, deserved opportunity.

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Playing a Duet

My mom’s friend came over today as usual to visit, play the piano, and have lunch. My mom and I surprised her, my dad, and brother by playing a duet that we had been practicing over the past few days while my dad and brother were out of town. I haven’t actually played a piece in quite a few years. It took a little while to be able to read the notes quickly enough to move my fingers. My mom gave me a some guidance and encouragement along the way. The very easy duet sounded pretty good and everyone generously gave us a round of applause. Now that I’m warmed up, we’re ready to move on to the next level. I feel so blessed to spend time with my mom this way and hope some of her knowledge and talent rubs off on me.

I Found God today being able to play a duet with my mom.

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Starting the Job

My son started his new job today. He purposefully took some time before he began so he could get set up in his apartment and have a little down time. He came over for dinner and told us all about his first day. I don’t think I am yet used to the idea that he is living here. I still smile when I think about it and my heart fills with joy. Starting his job just made it that much more real.

I Found God today in the blessing of my son starting a job here.

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Singing Hymns

My mom and I went to church this morning and sat in our “usual spot”. Typically my mom sits on the end so it is easy for the Eucharistic Ministers who deliver communion to those who have a difficult time going down the main aisle. Next to my mom would be my dad, then me and/or whoever else comes with us. Since my dad is still out of town, I sat next to my mom. Her voice gets very quiet now due to the Parkinson’s Disease. But today when the entrance hymn began, I was pleasantly surprised to hear my mom singing. Her voice was strong and on pitch. I thought about how sometimes when I was a child, I would get embarrassed by her powerful operatic voice. People would always turn and look when she sang in church. Today I thought it was one of the most beautiful things I had heard.

I Found God today hearing my mom sing.