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Positive Quotes

I saw several positive quotes today as people are clinging to faith, hope, and love and friends are sharing their wisdom. Here are some of them:

For Jesus, there are no countries to be conquered, no ideologies to be imposed, no people to be dominated. There are only children, women, and men to be loved. Henri Nouwen

One day, you will thank God from saving you from the wrong decision.

When you don’t know what to do, just pray.

If you think you’ve blown God’s plan for your life, rest in this. You, my friend, are not that powerful.

It’s hard to hear God’s voice when you’ve already decided what you want him to say. TobyMac

I Found God today in positive quotes.

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Open Adoption

Today a friend of mine told me about a family member who adopted a baby several years ago. The family member knew the parents of the child when the mother was pregnant. They all agreed to have an open adoption. The adoptive parents were in the room when the baby was born and brought it home from the hospital. The child is now in 6th grade and has maintained a relationship with the birth parents as well as the grandparents. It is one large supportive family. We talked about what a loving choice it was for everyone involved. Even though it wasn’t an easy decision and hasn’t been without difficulties as any family, all parties have rallied around the child to do the most loving thing. And they have made connections with others that would never have been made otherwise. It was a beautiful story and witness to the meaning of “Love your neighbor as yourself”.

I Found God today in a beautiful adoption story.

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The Village

I have learned that it takes a village not only to raise our children, but to care for our elderly. I am grateful for the nurses who come over, those who bathe my mom, those who come spend time with her, and of course family. Today we had a new addition to that list. My mom’s last haircut was a struggle. It was difficult to find a parking place so my mom could easily get in and out and the length of time from start to finish including the drive was just too overwhelming for her. At that appointment, the hairdresser offered to come to the house. I decided to take her up on the offer and she came over today. My mom said she looked very different than she did in the salon. I think mostly because the whole situation was different. My mom was a little uncomfortable with the idea – she doesn’t really like people fussing over her. But it was definitely a much calmer experience. And mom looked beautiful at the end. I was so grateful for the beautiful, caring, generous hairdresser.

I Found God today in a generous, helpful woman.

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Loving Ways

I was happy to make a trip to the cabin today. We got the hot water heater replaced that had been in the house for 40 years. We decided to take care of it before there were any problems. While I was there, I did some cleaning. As I went from room to room, I thought about how my mom and dad got everything set up there. In particular, I realized how many things my dad put in place for my mom. For example, they bought a keyboard that would fit in the space. However, there wasn’t a music holder. I don’t know if the keyboard didn’t come with one, or if something happened to it. So, my dad made one and got it attached. It may seem small, but there were many of these small things that I noticed. That was all part of how my dad showed my mom how much he loved her.

I Found God today noticing ways my dad showed his love for my mom.

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Do Your Best

This morning at church, a woman form the parish spoke about her faith journey. She had a favorite saying that I really liked, “Do your best and let God do the rest.” How often I think of God as being so tiny that He can’t take care of things. Or how often I give myself too much credit as the one who is supposed to do everything. Neither extreme is true or healthy.

I Found God today in a reminder of His power.

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Family Adventure

I reserved an overnight stay at a family hotel that had an indoor adventure and water park. My sons and family were planning on staying overnight last night and celebrating their birthdays. However, one of my sons wasn’t well. So, I cancelled the overnight stay, but took my other son, daughter in law, and two grandchildren to the place just for the afternoon. We had so much fun playing mini golf, bowling, rock climbing, and I even did the ropes course. I had never done that before and thought I would give it a try. Once I was harnessed in and at the top, I remembered how old I was. But I thought of a recent show I saw called “Limitless” with Chris Hemsworth. At first I thought the show was going to be about the Thor actor showing off how Thor-like he really is. But it was almost the opposite. In the first episode that I watched, he admitted that he had always struggled with stress and wanted to learn how to deal with it better. He worked with a psychologist who gave him challenges ending with walking on a crane extended from a skyscraper. The idea was that you can put your body through extremely stressful situations and teach it how to handle it. Then every day life stress won’t affect you as much. Anyways, that’s what I thought about as I made my way from one obstacle to another high above the ground. I focused on how to complete one challenge at a time. I was pretty proud of myself for doing it. Then after all that we spent a couple hours in the water park. We were all exhausted by the end of the evening. This morning my other son was feeling better, so we all went to brunch and to race gocarts. Then we came back to the house to share birthday cake with my sister and mom. It didn’t all go exactly as I planned, but we all had a great time and celebrated another year with my sons.

I Found God today having a couple of days of fun with my family.

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Little Energy

After my mom’s big day yesterday, she woke up this morning with very little energy. Our family friend came over and surprised us with a visit from her husband who brought their 1 year old granddaughter. She was just about the most adorable little toddler I have ever seen with her two little pigtails on the top of her head. When she was younger, I thought she looked like the Gerber baby. She walked all around exploring things and waving and clapping and laughing. It was such a joy to have her spend some of her little energy with us. And a little of it may have rubbed off on my mom.

I Found God today in little energy.

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Carpet Cleaning

We usually have our carpets cleaned once a year after the summer. This year I decided to go with a company owned by a friend. The wife was just a kid in the neighborhood we lived in many years ago. It was a wonderful community and we were all like family. Her son came over to do the carpet cleaning. I explained to my mom who he was and it was a bit much for her to think that the little girl she met way back had a young adult son. The young man was very professional, careful, and polite. My mom for her part did pretty well for a day that was completely off of the norm. She was confused about things but went along with whatever we suggested. It is a blessing that she remains pretty easy going.

I Found God today in a different, but non stressful day.

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Defense Against Anxiety

My mom read her reflection from “Jesus Calling” this evening. The first sentence gave us both cause to pause. It is written as if Jesus is talking directly to you. “Anxiety is a result of envisioning the future without Me. So the best defense against worry is staying in communication with Me.” Enough said.

I Found God today in a remedy against anxiety.

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The Roofers

Several months ago, our neighborhood got hit with large hail which did plenty of damage to the houses. Since then, we have seen and heard roofs being replaced just about every day. Today we had a great view of a house undergoing it’s restoration. My mom loves watching what is going on and we usually watch outside sitting on the porch. However, today mom was having a rough time getting around. So, I set her up in the wheelchair with a wonderful view out the front door. She sat for much of the afternoon and watched and commented on their progress. I was reminded of her story of her grandfather. He lived with her family when she was a child. He only spoke and understood German. My mom said he would sit for hours and look out the window watching the activity of the busy street. Mom very much enjoyed her afternoon being entertained by the roofers and I think it was calming for her in some way.

I Found God today watching my mom enjoying watching.