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Parkinson’s Victories

While my mom was at her exercise class today, I went walking with 2 other caregivers whose husbands have Parkinson’s. As we walk, we talk about the disease and how it affects our loved ones and ourselves, among other things. Today we shared some of the victories we had over the weekend. One story in particular was about one of the men who was an avid fisherman. Since he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, he has not been able to enjoy the sport. His wife said over the weekend, they went fishing. She helped tie the fly on the line and in no time at all, he was casting as he used to. He even caught a couple of fish. He said while he was fishing, he didn’t even remember he had Parkinson’s. Tonight, my mom and I watched America Ninja Warrior. One of the competitors had Parkinson’s. He admitted that he went into a deep depression when he was diagnosed as a young man. But then he decided to keep moving. He trained, lost weight, and got strong. It was amazing to watch him navigate the course. I could see the tremor in his hand even as he stopped a few seconds to get set for the next obstacle. In the interview, he said the same words – when he works out and participated in events, he doesn’t even think about having Parkinson’s. Even though he didn’t complete the course, he was victorious.

I Found God today in big and small victories as people work to overcome struggles.

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New Foster Father

When I was working in youth ministry, I met many fellow workers in the field. It was such a great group of people who had a heart for God, a heart for youth, and a support to one another. I admired them individually in the many ways they lived their faith. Today, among all the Father’s Day messages on social media, I came across a post from one of the youth ministers. In the past year, he and his wife have become foster parents and he is now “Dad” to 3 young men who are refugees from Africa. He didn’t expand on the details of their lives saying, “Their personal stories contain too much loss, suffering, resiliency and miracles to note them all here.” This morning, I was surprised and disturbed to hear Steve Bannon say, “…the Catholic church is one of the big instigators in the open borders and the pope has been driving the migrant issue…” In sharp contrast, I was in awe of this one youth minister who has taken it upon himself to make a difference in the lives of 3 young men who were in a horrible situation through no fault of their own. He said, “…no matter on which side of the aisle you reside, I ask you to contemplate that our world is in need of daddies and mommies for domestic and international children who need a physical, emotional and spiritual home, maybe it’s yours…” That is the faith I know – one that loves others best as we can, in the place we are, regardless of their situation. I was so grateful for this post and the reminder of the God I love and serve.

I Found God today in the words and loving life example of a new foster father.

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Celebrating Men

Today my sisters, son, nephew, and a friend came over to the house. We celebrated my nephew’s birthday and Father’s Day. We had a great party celebrating the men. My nephew and son told us stories of their night out and we laughed and laughed. They kind of grew up together when they were little and I loved seeing the two of them continuing their relationship as they get older. I guess there wasn’t anything specific that made it such a fun afternoon – just having everyone there happy, telling stories, enjoying each other’s company, and celebrating my nephew and dad.

I Found God today celebrating family with family and friends.

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Homemade Prayer Card

I have a couple of prayer cards that I like to use in the morning, but I haven’t been able to find them recently. Today as I looked all around in my assorted piles, I came across a prayer card that was made by my nephew when he was about 6 years old. I thought it was so fitting since we are celebrating his birthday. I said the prayer and prayed for him as well.

I Found God today in a sweet prayer written by my nephew.

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Crossing to Adulthood

Today is my nephew’s 21st birthday. I have recently been going through old photos and came across several of him when he was younger. Now he is a young adult and serving in the military. I mean, I know that is what happens, but for some reason it is still hard to believe. I smile when I think of him and love when I can see him. When he and my son get together, it is like old times when we all lived together for a while. I’m so glad they continue that relationship. I’m not sure what his future holds for him, but he has made some very necessary and mature decisions and is on a good path. I’m just very proud of him and happy for him.

I Found God today celebrating my nephew as he makes the cross over to adulthood.

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An Off Day

Early this morning I was suddenly awakened by a loud clap of thunder. Then I heard the hail begin. I contemplated going outside and bringing my new little plants under cover. Then, I remembered a time when I tried to rescue some newly potted tomato plants during a storm. Just as I grabbed the pot, there was a lightning bolt that terrified me, so I fell and dumped the pot I was trying to save. I decided not to try it this time. I listened as the thunder and hail continued. I also heard my parents rustling about. We were all awake for a while until things calmed down. When I got up later in the morning and checked things out, I was happy to see there were only a few leaves damaged on my flowers. But the whole day was just a little off. When it was time to get my mom to exercise class, it took me way too long to get ready and she was late. She did some difficult cognitive exercises so much that at the end during the stretches, she couldn’t figure out how to change from one arm to the other. Later I went to mail a package and didn’t address it, and didn’t have my phone with the info, so I had to make another trip. My mom went to take a nap in the afternoon and slept for an hour and a half. We were both tired and kind of achy all day. Perhaps is was the new and unusual humidity from the strange overnight storm. Perhaps it was because we didn’t sleep well. Whatever the case, we agreed that off day’s help us to appreciate the good days much more.

I Found God today in a strange off day that will help me to appreciate the good days.

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Virtual Trip

My brother and his dog have been travelling around in his truck and trailer for a few months now. Recently, they headed up into Alaska. He shares some great pictures and videos of wildlife including bald eagles and baby owls. We are lucky to video chat with him several times a week. He will show us around his latest campground so we can see the view and tell us about the recent happenings. It is pretty fascinating and exciting to go on this virtual trip with him and we all look forward to his next call.

I Found God today in a virtual trip to Alaska.

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Changed Relationship

Tonight we went to a little dinner party for a friend of my mom. It included the group of music teachers that my mom has known for years, though the number has been gradually dwindling. They still get together to celebrate one another’s birthday. The guest of honor will be turning 87 years old. Her husband died about 2 years ago and since then she has sold her house and most of her belongings and is now in an assisted living facility. She and her son have never been very close, but now he is making a weekly trip from his house in the mountains to the facility to spend time with her and help take care of her needs. Tonight she told us that her son was going to take her up to his place to spend some time there. She was so happy – almost giddy as she talked about it. She has never even seen his home. It is hard to imagine having that kind of relationship with a child or parent. But I am so happy to see that relationship change and see how much joy it is bringing to the woman.

I Found God today in a relationship changed for the positive.

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Unusual Occurrences

We returned home today from a lengthy stay at the cabin. This was the longest time we have visited there since I have been with my parents. They both did great, although it was a very unusual few days. We always put the bird feeders out when we arrive, but this time no birds came. We saw just 2 kinds of small birds that only showed up a couple of times and 1 chipmunk. We did see, however, red-tail hawks and a pair of golden eagles who were trying to decide if the feathered hatband on my cowboy hat was something worth trying to snag. The wildlife was also non-existent – we didn’t even catch anything on the wildlife camera. Except for the raccoon that woke me in the middle of the night as it scampered across the roof right above me and landed on the deck right next to me. It found some birdseed that was inadvertently left out. I wasn’t sure what it was at the time and everything is louder and scarier in the middle of the night. But the next morning I found a footprint it left on the yellow pollen covered rail. That’s another thing that was strange. It was hot, dry, and hazy with an overabundance of yellow pollen. Every morning when the wind picked up, the air was filled with it. Everything in the house was covered. When my dad checked on his painting job, it also had a layer of the yellow stuff. The next morning after the raccoon visit, I was awakened by the sound of cows mooing and a donkey braying. It sounded like they were right outside the house. When I investigated, I found them in the valley below. The cows use the land for grazing, but I have never heard them make such odd sounds – and a donkey? So, while everything went well, there were many very unusual occurrences. I guess you never really know what is going to happen up there. But it certainly keeps us engaged and entertained.

I Found God today experiencing unusual occurrences.

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Good Oxygen

As we spent time at the cabin, we brought an oxygen monitor just to check and see how much the altitude affects us. Both my mom and my dad had oxygen levels around 94, which is great. I did pretty good too. We talked about how lucky my parents are to still be able to spend time at the cabin. My dad jokingly – or maybe not – responded that they didn’t even think they would still be alive at this age. I know many people whose parents had to move to a lower altitude when they got older and their health was not so good. Not only was their oxygen fine, my mom wasn’t as dizzy or tired and my dad did quite a bit of work on the house. Their persistence continues to amaze me. I am so glad that they both can still make the trip and enjoy their cabin in the mountains that they love and have worked so hard to build.

I Found God today being grateful for my parents capabilities.