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Previous Lives

We had a Hospice CNA come over today. She gave my mom a little pampering with lotion and oils. Then she got out a pack of question cards that she picked up. She had told me about them before and was very excited to use them. She told us about some of the questions and answers that she had heard so far. We talked about the importance of remembering that the people she visits have had full lives. They had parents and relatives, jobs and hobbies, schools and friends. And the lives of those much older than us were very different from what we experience now. The card that my mom picked was to describe her siblings. Unfortunately, she wasn’t in a very talkative mood, so the conversation was pretty short. But that was also ok. The young CNA was so thoughtful and compassionate. She was definitely a blessing to us and certainly for others as well.

I Found God today in a compassionate young woman.

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You Are My Sunshine

Today after lunch, our new caregiver, me, and my mom were all in the kitchen. My mom was sitting in her wheelchair while we were cleaning up. Suddenly, I heard my mom singing, “You are my sunshine…” The caregiver and I joined in, “my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey, you never know dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my sunshine away.” Then we all clapped. I was grateful for the beautiful sing-along.

I Found God today singing along with my mom.

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Clear the Blockage

We’re very happy that my mom still reads our devotion from “Jesus Calling” every night. The last few sentences from tonight’s reflection were particularly meaningful and we read it over again. “When your mind is stuck on a negative focus, you see neither Me nor My gifts. In faith, thank Me for whatever is preoccupying your mind. This will clear the blockage so you can find Me.” It helped remind me to find Him tonight.

I Found God today reminded to clear the blockage of negative thoughts.

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In Our House

I asked my mom how she found God today. She said she found him right here in our house pointing emphatically to the floor. My heart swelled.

I Found God today here in our house as well.

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Flossing

After dinner this evening, my mom has something stuck in her teeth. We had to stop saying our prayers so that she could get it out. However, she couldn’t do it. My sister got her a piece of dental floss to see if that would help. Unfortunately, my mom couldn’t figure out how to use it. So I volunteered. My sister held a light and my mom opened her mouth best she could. I tried to make my hands small as I flossed the teeth in the area I saw her poking at. It only took a couple tries before I found the annoyance and got it out. I felt pretty good about accomplishing that without any negative effects. Every day brings a new “first”.

I Found God today able to help my mom.

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Best Ships

Today I was in a texting group of some friends that I have had for over 35 years. Everyone was posting Happy St Patrick’s Day messages. One of them shared an Irish toast that I thought summer it up:

There are good ships and wood ships,  Ships that sail the sea,  But the best ships are friendships, and may they always be.

I Found God today in the best of friendships.


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Laughter

My mom has been feeling pretty bad for quite some time and her cognition continues to decline. Last week we found that she has had a UTI for who knows how long. She is currently on her 2nd round of antibiotics. We have also made some adjustments to her other medications. It was good to see her eyes brighter when she got up this morning and she said she felt better. She also started eating more. There were several times during the day when we all laughed out loud. She would say funny things or do funny things on purpose, which made it all even funnier. It was a good day.

I Found God today as my mom felt a little better.

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In the Shower

Since this recent time change, my mom has not been getting up til later in the morning. This week, the CNA came to give her a shower, but my mom was still in bed. She was due to come again today, but it was cancelled due to the snow storm. My mom really needed a shower, but I wasn’t sure if I would be able to get her in or not. She was pretty weary when she got up, but after breakfast she was agreeable to it. I pulled her wheelchair as close to the shower entrance as I could so she was able to stand up using the grab bar. Together, we got her in, washed up, and out without any major concerns. I gave her a pedicure and styled her hair as well. Once it was all over, she said she felt good. I felt quite accomplished and was happy that she is all clean.

I Found God today in the ability to get my mom all cleaned up.

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Snow Angel

The impending snow storm arrived last night and we awoke to a winter wonderland. As we ate our breakfast, we saw our “roofmates” outside clearing the wet, heavy snow off the tree branches. They kept us entertained. Later, I received a message from the wife saying that she made a snow angel outside the window for my mom. Unfortunately, we missed seeing her create it. Then she said that the angel was kind of a mess at the bottom as once she got down on the ground, she couldn’t get back up. Her husband had to come pull her up and he almost ended up on the ground as well. I was really sorry that we had missed seeing that and could only imagine how amusing it must have been. It was such a fun, thoughtful thing for them to do.

I Found God today in our funny, thoughtful neighbors.

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Sun and Prayer

We’re supposed to be getting a big snow storm. This morning, however, was really nice weather. Mom and I were happy to sit in the doorway with the door propped open and get some sunshine and fresh air. My mom would occasionally say things that didn’t really make sense. But then at one point, I recognized the “Hail Mary”. She finished saying her prayers and made the sign of the cross. It was moving.

I Found God today in the warmth of the sunshine and mom’s prayer.