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More Artistic Expression

Today my sisters, brother-in-law, and nephew all came over to celebrate my younger sister’s birthday. She is obsessed with her chickens, so it was a chicken themed party. My older sister and I collaborated to make the birthday cake. I baked the cake and put together a chicken coop out of rice crispie treats. My sister molded little chickens out of fondant. It was adorable. Having people over always lifts my parents’ spirits and we were all happy to see that my mom was feeling better. After lunch and cake, we all went to our new favorite place to celebrate where we paint a work of art. A few of my friends and two couples that my sister has known since high school met us there. When we were able to take a little break, I took a look to see how everyone’s pictures were coming along, which is half the fun. Two of the guys were doing an amazing job and putting their own twist on things. Come to find out, they both had painting experience. I loved to see personalities and individual flair show through the artwork. This picture was more colorful from the others I have done and was full of meadow flowers, so it was easier to take creative liberty. People mixed different colors and added different brushstrokes. My nephew even put a smiley face in the sun. It was a great day of fun, friends, and family.

I Found God today in artistic expression, being with family and friends, and seeing my mom feeling better.

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Answered the Call

We are always very careful about answering the land line. If you answer and it is a soicitation – or worse a scam – that triples the amount of calls that come in. Luckily we have caller ID to help figure out if the caller is someone we know or not. Tonight when the phone rang, it simply read, “Private Caller”. I thought about not answering, but my mom had a catscan late this afternoon and I thought perhaps it was a doctor telling us the results. I answered with a finger on the button ready to hang up if it was a solicitor or scam. It was in fact the doctor. He confirmed what we had been concerned about – my mother has diverticulitis again. She has had it too many times in the past and knows what it feels like, so hopefully this time she caught it early enough that we can knock it out here at home without her having to be hospitalized. I was so grateful that I picked up that phone and was able to talk with the doctor about test results and what to do so we wouldn’t be wondering and worrying all weekend.

I Found God today being able to talk with a doctor for answers and advice.

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Napping Weather

It was an icy, snowy, foggy, cold, dark day today. I was so glad I got all my errands done yesterday. It was the perfect weather for napping. My mom was not feeling very well today so she napped quite a bit. It just seemed to work out fine. I was glad she was able to get a lot of rest.

I Found God today in napping weather.

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Simple Encounters

I was out and about running errands today. Tomorrow’s weather is supposed to be cold and icy, so I wanted to get as much done as possible and get home with dinner. There were a couple instances that made me take a step back and smile. I was going into one store and held the door for a woman coming out. She had a big smile on her face. She said, “I just love it when the young cashiers call me sweetie!” It made her day. In the grocery store I made my way to the ice cream and without even thinking, reached for the store brand which is always cheaper. A woman had just closed the door in the case next to me. She said, “I have to tell you, I found this other brand on sale for cheaper. I just did the same thing and reached for the store brand, but then I saw this was on sale.” I thanked her and bought the one on sale. It made me smile because not only did I save a little, the ice cream tastes better too. The person at the register recognized me from my many trips there, and we chatted a bit like we knew each other. Maybe these seem like silly things, but these simple encounters helped me to be a little more cheery.

I Found God today in simple encounters with people.

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Lengthy Waiting Room

I took my dad to an eye doctor’s appointment today. The morning consisted of checking in, waiting, answering questions, eye exam, getting eye drops, waiting, more extensive exam, waiting, and finally talking with the doctor. The waiting area was jammed packed full of people – mostly senior citizens – going through the same ritual as we were. It was like a little community and was interesting watching people interact. There were several pop up conversations  about jobs and children and grandchildren. People were watching out for one another, listening for names as they were called, and even gently waking those who were napping. They congratulated one another when it was finally their turn to see the doctor. The woman in the wheelchair got extra support as she was wheeled from place to place – evidently her caregiver left for the duration and would come back to pick her up later. People were comparing their diagnosis and treatments. There was a woman who had a service dog in training. She told us and those around us that she was diabetic and the puppy was learning to alert her if she was having a problem. The 5 month old golden doodle was so cute and well-behaved, but was growing impatient. The 3-hour experience wasn’t all that bad as we knew ahead of time what to expect and everyone in the room was patient and kind. As for my dad, the doctor found a couple of things that he wants to monitor – so we will be back in 4-6 weeks to do it all over again.

I Found God today in a room full of kind and patient people.

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Finally Some Relief

My brother has been having quite a bit of trouble with some kind of allergic reaction for almost a year now. He has tried different doctors, different remedies, different environmental adjustments, and different foods. He has received relief from time to time, but nothing that lasts. All along he has been doing as much research as he can to see what else might help. We hadn’t talked to him for a while and were very happy when he called via video chat last night. He had read an article warning that one of his medications could cause early onset of dementia if taken over a long period of time. That was not surprising, as it definitely had been affecting him – giving him a “foggy” mind – as much of the allergy medication does. He decided that he was no longer going to take it. After a few days of withdrawal type symptoms, he started feeling much better and could think clearer. My parents and I talked about it today. We noticed that he even looked better. His eyes were brighter and his smile was more real. We were so glad that he was able to make this change and that it made such a big difference in the way he felt.

I Found God today in some much-needed improvement and relief for my brother.

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Being God’s Creation

Tonight my dad told my mom and I that recently he has been dreaming about mistakes he has made in his past. We talked about how different each person is and even though we all make bad decisions, there is a lot of successes. My dad has always been very intelligent and pretty strong headed and those qualities kept him moving forward in his careers – both in the military and then as a college teacher. At the same time, he always thought of the needs and desires of his family when it came time to move to his next assignment. Each of us has an impact on other people in the way that only we can and my dad has had several people come to him years later to tell him so. If he wasn’t the exact person he is, he would not have the influence on specific people. He had to be in the right place at the right time and just be who God created him to be. I hope if he has the dreams again, that he can push out those thoughts by remembering the positive effect he has made.

I Found God today recounting the blessing that my father is.

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Cooking Turkeys

Sometimes I think I have heard all the stories my parents have to tell. Then they come up with another one that I know nothing about. As we were playing a game tonight, my mom told one such story. Her father was a baker and the family lived in the upstairs home above the bakery. For many years at Thanksgiving, people in the neighborhood would bring their turkeys to my grandfather and he would bake them in his large ovens. I thought about what a generous gesture this was. I wonder if you would find any situation like this in any neighborhood these days. My mother also told me several times that homeless people would come to the bakery at the end of the day and my grandfather would give away everything he had left. There were no leftovers. There was no waste. These stories have helped me to get a better picture of the hard-working, selfless person that my grandfather was. I am blessed to be able to hear these stories first hand.

I Found God today learning more about the generosity of my grandfather.

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Such Similarities

Our new neighbors moved in a few months ago and we have been meaning to get together. Things finally worked out and we had the couple over today. We had seen and spoken to the wife a few times as she stayed here while her husband was tying up some loose ends in their previous state. This was the first time we were able to sit down with both her and her husband. The topic of careers came up and my dad talked about his work as a meteorologist. He also talked about research he did regarding the ionosphere. He has told me about this before, and quite frankly the whole thing baffles me. Our neighbor worked in radio and knew all about the ionosphere. He was also fascinated with weather. As the afternoon continued, he noticed the photos on the wall and realized that my dad had taken them. He was also a photographer. From there, they discussed cameras, scanners, and printers. It was amazing how much they had in common. I loved seeing my dad talk about his passions with someone who understood and enjoyed the same things. We had such a wonderful afternoon visit and I am sure it is just the first of many.

I Found God today in the similarities between my dad and a new neighbor.

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You’ve Got a Friend in Me

Today my parents and I watched the adorable viral video of the little 4 year old girl and her dad singing, “You’ve Got a Friend in Me”. It brought tears to my eyes. According to the news, the video has been seen over 100 million times. Why is this video so widely popular? I think there are a few reasons. First of all, you can feel the love between dad and the little girl coming right through the screen. Second, this song is so popular and it brings people back to when they saw that new animated “Toy Story”. Third, the voice of the little girl is amazing on perfect pitch and full of emotion. Finally, I think we are anxious, frustrated, and tired of so much negativism that is being fed in our country. This sweet, innocent video holds no controversy or hateful rhetoric. It displays what we all desire – joy, love and friendship.

I Found God today in a beautiful video with a beautiful message.