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Family Fun Time

Last year I planned a getaway for me, my kids and grandkids at a fun family hotel with an indoor water park and other activities. Unfortunately at that time, one son got sick. So I postponed the reservation. I had one year to use it or lose it. Several weeks ago, I made the new reservation for this weekend as that worked out for everyone. We spent time playing in the water and hanging out together. There was a very involved computerized interactive “quest” that sparked the interest of my granddaughter. She got her computerized wand and spent much of the time on the adventure. It was kind of like a scavenger hunt around the hotel, but much more detailed as different jewels and relics had to be found in a certain order to become a “master”. Over the 2 days, my granddaughter walked around and around with either her dad or my son’s fiancee in tote as she had played before. She completed the whole game at the end by battling and defeating a dragon and opening the coveted chest of jewels. We all just had a lot of fun being together for a couple days and I was grateful we were able to do so.

I Found God today having fun time with my family.

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Gotta Get Glasses

Over thirty years ago, I had surgery done on my eyes to correct my vision. This was even before the laser surgery. I was so happy with the results and have been seeing clearly for years. It was such a blessing. As was expected, I have been wearing reading glasses for a few years now and have been gradually increasing the strength. During the past year or so I have noticed that it was becoming more difficult to read street signs when I drove. I did visit the eye doctor who gave me a prescription, but while caring for my mom I wasn’t really going anywhere, so it wasn’t too much of a problem. Several weeks ago, I started having other kinds of problems with my eyes. They were itchy, irritated, and were getting goopy. One eye became painful all around it, swollen, and red. Then a sty formed. Then another. I visited the eye doctor who said it was an infection and gave me antibiotics. He also suggested a specific kind of drop for my dry eyes. After a week, it started feeling better. During that time it was even more difficult to see clearly. I went back to the eye doctor a few weeks later and the infection had cleared up. My eyes felt much better, but my vision still wasn’t up to par. After the exam, the doctor said my vision was the same as last year and recommended glasses. This time I was ready as I am out and about quite a bit. I looked at the glasses at their office, but the prices were so high. I asked if they had a bargain bin. The girl pretty much laughed and said I didn’t have to buy them there. My sister reminded me that we had a membership to Sam’s Club and they had glasses. I went there today. The optometrist there was super nice and helpful. I told him I just wanted glasses for distance and would use over the counter readers. He said that I would be able to buy a pair of glasses and get a second pair almost half price. His recommendation was to get prescription readers due to the astigmatism. I would still be straining my eyes with the higher strength generic kind. So, I agreed. My vision is important. He sorted through frames and helped me pick out the most reasonably priced ones that fit and looked nice. After all was said and done, I’ll be getting two pairs of glasses that even include the blue light block for less than one pair at the doctor’s office. I was elated and grateful and looking forward to seeing clearly regularly. When the gentleman said have a blessed day, I knew I was having one.

I Found God today in a helpful gentleman who helped me be able to see better.

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Working Walker

My brother was going to run some errands today and asked if I needed anything. I looked at my list and remembered my mom’s broken walker. One night when she was struggling and up a lot and I was doing my best to help her, she kept unlocking her walker when it needed to be locked. I would lock it again and she would unlock it again.  One time I locked it too hard, likely out of frustration, and the brake cable broke. It was now useless. Luckily, hospice had provided her with another one. We kept the broken walker because I figured some day we might get it fixed and someone could use it. I asked around at medical supply companies who did not do repairs and suggested to try a bike shop. So, it’s been sitting in my mom’s closet. When I saw the line item on my list, I asked my brother if he would like to see about getting it fixed. He contacted a bike shop who said they could fix it. He brought it in and waited while they did the repair. It only took about 15 minutes. Now the walker is back in the closet, but it works. It’s ready to be donated or put to good use of some kind. I was grateful that my brother got it taken care of.

I Found God today in my brother’s help and a working walker to be put to good use.

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Healing Taking Place

One of the ladies in our prayer group had emergency surgery 2 weeks ago and is currently in a rehabilitation facility. Tonight was our meeting night, so we brought the meeting to her. The facility allowed us to use one of the common rooms. One of the guys even brought his computer so we could Zoom with one member who is out of state. Once everything was ready, the woman in rehab was wheeled in the wheelchair by her husband. She looked really good and we all told her so. She said it was because she was able to take a shower today. But even beyond that, she had good color, bright eyes and energy. We read and discussed the Gospel for this Sunday as usual. Our friend said she was having difficulty finding the right words to say what she wanted and was taking therapy for that. But she engaged in conversation and I thought she did just fine. She said she had some work to do before she goes home because she wants to be able to function on her own without being a burden to her husband. From my point of view, it was good to see her doing so well. One of the other ladies brought Holy Communion, so our friend and her husband were able to receive. It was a blessing to be all together, seeing one another, praying together, and encouraging each other.

I Found God today praying with friends and seeing healing taking place.

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Perfect Fall Day

I have been wanting to drive a certain gravel road that I know of through the mountains. It was a gorgeous day today and a friend of mine was able to get away, so off we went. We first took the highway to a mountain town. The Fall colors were stunning after the cool, wet weekend. We stopped several times for photo opportunities, but when I looked at them later I realized just how difficult it is to capture that beauty in a picture. Once we reached the town, we met my brother for lunch. Then we all headed to the gravel road to make our way back down. I drove my car with my friend and my brother took his truck with his dog. The road was as expected with a mixture of washboards, ruts, runoffs, and smooth spots which added to the experience. We certainly didn’t have to worry too much about traffic, although there was an occasional truck hauling rocks or lumber, and a couple other sightseers like ourselves. The scenery was breathtaking and we stopped plenty of times to take it in and to record the day. We even saw a deer which stood and posed for a while. Our goal was to make it back home before dark, which we did. To me, this day was pretty perfect as the weather was best as it could be and I spent it driving in the mountains with a good friend, enjoying the beauty of nature, and taking photos. I felt so blessed.

I Found God today in a perfect Fall day.

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Praying Together

Last night after dinner, I read the first prayer of the novena to St. Therese with my sister. I realized how much I missed praying with my mom. Every night after dinner we would pray with whoever was there. We prayed according to the liturgical year, or special novenas. And we would almost always end with our personal intentions and a prayer to St. Bernadette followed by “getting on our Holy Water.” Unfortunately, that habit stopped after my mom died. The reflection I listened to this morning on the Hallow app was called, “The Importance of Praying Together”. It started by saying how difficult life is – and it’s even harder if you try to do it alone. It’s the same thing in our faith life. St. Padre Pio was quoted, “Today’s society does not pray together. That is why it is falling apart.” That statement really touched my heart. I decided I wanted to try to make a more concerted effort to pray with others. After all, Jesus said that when 2 or more are gathered in His name that He is there too. Tonight my sister and I read the 2nd day of the novena to St. Therese of Lisieux. So far, so good.

I Found God today reminded of the importance of praying together.

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Fall Arrived

The weather today was perfect for ringing in the first day of Fall. It was cool, wet, and cloudy with the sun peeking through towards the end of the day. I was happy to get out my olive green wool jacket to wear to church today where I saw my son and his fiancee. She was wearing a cozy, fluffy sweater that was so soft I just wanted to keep hugging her. After church I broke down and got my first pumpkin spice coffee of the season. It was delicious. My sister and I inadvertantly both wore our orange long sleeve T-shirts, which worked well for me as I watched the football game. We organized some scrapbooking supplies and came across many photos of years gone by. It was good to share them together with joy, sadness, and gratitude. We find treasures every day. A couple weeks ago I purchased some candy corn and candy pumpkins. Today it seemed appropriate to open them. It was another nice treat. There was definitely a different mood in the atmosphere as things are changing dramatically.

I Found God today celebrating Fall.

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Help Others Love Music

Today I organized a bookcase best I could. I got together all the books about composers and music techniques and found some notes in a calendar that my mom had written regarding her piano students. I remembered how much she loved teaching. And she put all her earnings into her own account to get special things she wanted and to save for the future. I also found the music to “Clair de Lune” by Debussy, which is my all time favorite. It makes sense as I am pretty fascinated with the moon. When I think about it, the piece kind of depicts both my mom’s love for music and my dad’s love for space. I pulled out the music and looked at it to see if there was any way I thought I could play it. After reviewing it, I put it back in the pile. Perhaps some day I’ll pull it out. I remember my mom playing it for me when she was able to as she knew how much I loved it. I was somber, but enjoyed the good memories. My mom loved helping others love music.

I Found God today remembering my mom’s love for helping others love music.

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You Are Here For a Reason

When I worked as a youth minister, I was blessed to meet an amazing woman who was a youth minister for a neighboring parish. We became very good friends and talked about what we might do when we were no longer working with the teens. She is an incredibly faithful, compassionate person and I have always admired her insight. She recently wrote a book titled, “You Are Here For A Reason”. I saw today that she also created a video to introduce the book. Her wisdom, encouragement, and hope spoke to my heart as I pictured her reading the words. She made a huge difference in the lives of many families and I pray her book will bless even more. You can see the video here.

I Found God today in the blessing of an inspirational friend.

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The Prayer Drawer

Today I went through my mom’s “prayer drawer” in her nightstand. It’s where she kept all her religious articles and prayer books. I found many treasures. There were prayer cards and Mass programs for friends and family who had died. I found a prayer book over 100 years old that my mom had signed her maiden name in cursive on the front cover. There were a few rosaries, pins, and scapulars. One scapular was very tiny and old. I’m sure it was the one she received for her first Holy Communion. I also came across the small hard covered prayer books that both my mom and dad were given for their first Communion. In the papers was a booklet arranged by their beloved nun from high school who was the choir director. The mimeographed, stapled 30 page booklet was uplifting musings and quotes. I’m not sure I had ever seen that one before. It was easy to identify which prayer books were my mom’s favorites. I prayed some of them with her and am grateful for those memories. They went back into the drawer along with the keepsakes. Many other items were fairly new and had been sent by different organizations. I collected all those to donate to an outreach chapel. It was a blessing to look through the drawer and appreciate the faith that my mom had. I’m grateful she shared it with me.

I Found God today in my mother’s faith.