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Wisdom of Rules

Sadly, a friend and neighbor of my parents’ passed away last week. Today we attended his memorial service. Several family members and friends spoke of the man’s character and faith. It was clear how much he loved God, valued his family, and desired to make the world a better place. Several people talked about how he was such an eloquent writer. Many years ago, my dad wrote the newsletter for the housing complex. He would receive and include articles written by the friend. After the service, when we got home, my dad found his collection of the newsletters and one of the articles. As in most groups of people, some will follow the rules, and some will not. The article was written to address this issue. It read in part, ” . . . Rules are known as covenants and inevitably disharmony evolves when some homeowners abide by the covenants while others flaunt them. Laissez-faire attitudes can foster frustration and hopelessness which only in time give way to a general abandonment of rules originally intended for the welfare of everyone. Let us not forget that there is security and purpose in rules and therein lies harmonious living.”

I Found God today in the wisdom written by a caring man.

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Explosions

My sister bought a book about making candy. I want to learn more about it, so I started reading from the beginning. It reads like a textbook. It begins by describing different ingredients – how they are formed, how they interact with other ingredients, and how they behave under certain conditions. It was a lot for me and my sister to digest. I described the book to my dad who understood it fine. He told us about the chemistry set he had as a young teenager and the experiments he and his friends would do. My dad described two explosions that occurred. One of them involved a drain, and one involved my grandfather. Evidently, my dad had his chemistry set in his room. One day his dad came in to investigate. My dad explained one of the experiments, but when he was occupied with something else, his dad inadvertently caused the explosion. My dad said there was glass from the test tube and chemicals all over his room. Laughing, he said that was the last time his dad came into his room.

I Found God today in funny stories from my dad about some of his younger antics.

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Never Such a Party

The people who I exercise with in the morning are just wonderful and very good friends. Today was one of the mens’ 80th birthday, so the instructor arranged a surprise party for him. After our water aerobics class, we all met in one of the community rooms. The birthday boy was overcome with emotion. He was teary eyed as he thanked everyone and said how much it meant to him. He said he never had a birthday party like this one. At the prompting of the instructor, we each gave him 80 big ones – pennies that is. Everyone was to come up with a creative container and/or way of wrapping the pennies. There were some imaginative receptacles including a pool noodle, an inflatable earth, a pinata, a money tree, and even an old message holder from the late 1800’s which was perfect as he is a history buff. The gentleman is so sweet and caring, and tells such great stories. It was nice to celebrate him, especially seeing how much it meant to him.

I Found God today celebrating a caring man.

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Effective Prayers

Last night I met with a group of friends. One of them asked specifically for prayers as she has been struggling with her health and had a doctor’s appointment today. Later today I found that the appointment went well and she is on a good path for feeling better. That was good news.

I Found God today in effective prayers.

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Thankful For Service

It was a beautiful day today, so my parents and I had lunch out on the patio. After a while, a young man came around checking the sprinklers in the grassy area. He and my dad got to talking about the tree that nearly came down in the blizzard a few weeks ago. My dad shared that he worked as a weather forecaster when he was in the military. The young man thanked my dad for his service and said that we (the collective citizens) are moving forward only due to the work that was done years ago. My dad in turn thanked him for his service working on our yard. I enjoyed listening to their conversation and mutual respect for one another.

I Found God today in one man’s appreciation of the other.

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Great Giggles

I was able to see my far away family via computer today. Everyone was doing very silly things and entertained me and my mom. My 3 year old granddaughter was being very mischievous. She was purposefully being disobedient over and over again as my son did his best to keep her from getting into things. It was a great game. Her giggle and belly laughter was pure joy.

I Found God today in laughter.

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Take Them Home

Today on one of the caregiver’s groups that I belong to, people were talking about having difficulties getting their loved ones out of a nursing home. There were problems at the facilities, and the people were not able to just take their love one home. I had read stories of this happening in magazines as well. I thought about my current situation and became more grateful that I am able to care for my parents. I am so appreciative that we have been able to work through challenging issues so my parents are able to remain in their home and I am able to remain with them.

I Found God today grateful for the ability to care for my parents.

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Extreme Green Thumb

My sister came over this weekend and re-potted a couple of plants for me. She had re-potted one about a month ago, but it’s leaves were turning brown and curling on the edges. She said she thought it was getting fertilizer burn from the potting soil. The soil she got wasn’t her usual brand, but the salesperson told her it was great, so she used it. I also had a problem with annoying tiny flies in another plant. So, my sister bought new soil, took the plants out of their pots, scrubbed the pots with a mixture to eradicate the bugs, and put the plants back in the new soil. I was her apprentice since I really have no clue. She said starting from when she was young if she would see or get a new plant, she would research to find out everything she could about the it and what it needed to grow best. I said I have done the same thing in my life, but with people. And there-in lies our difference. My mom was getting ready to water her orchids today. My sister re-potted those too a while ago and now one is blooming. My mom commented about how my sister really knows what she is doing when it comes to plants. When she was young, my mom gave her a plant cart and my sister just loved it. When we would go on vacation, my sister loved observing the plant life. Now she has a huge Christmas cactus that she started over a decade ago from a cutting of a cactus that belonged to my mother. A couple of years ago, she took cuttings off it and we passed them around to friends and family. It is just who she is. It amazes me how each one of us is created to do something very different. And each of us has an opportunity to bless others while doing what God created us to do. Not only does she take care of our plants, my sister grows an amazing organic vegetable garden. She sells much of the produce, but she also donates tons to the local food bank.

I Found God today in the different talents He gives each of us and how we bless others through that.

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Want To Be Like God

Today I was happy to have the opportunity to attend a short Lent retreat at our parish. The talk was given by a Sister of the Merciful Jesus who spoke about the amazing mercy that Jesus offers to each one of us. She was full of joy, enthusiasm, and faith that was contagious. There was so much to take in and I prayed to remember what I should, when I need to. She had many stories that gave me a different perspective. I will share one here. When God created the angels, Lucifer was not happy with who he was and that he had to live under God’s direction. He wanted the power. He finally completely turned his back on God, thus creating hell, where he is his own god. Then, God created people. From the beginning, people weren’t happy with who they were. Adam and Eve ate from the “Tree of Knowledge” because Lucifer told them they would be like a god if they did. Everyone wanted to be like God. So, God sent His Son, Himself in flesh to the world to be the example. If anyone wants to be like God, Jesus has shown us how to do that. We just need to follow His lead. Hard, but true.

I Found God today with a different perspective of Jesus.

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Postcards from the Past

As my dad was looking through some papers today, he found a stack of old postcards that were written by him and my mom from some 40-60 years ago. They logged most of the trips that were taken. Most of them were sent to my dad’s parents who had kept them and now they are in my dad’s possession. I remembered some of the places myself, but not all. I came across a couple of postcards that were sent from my dad to my mom. One was addressed to “my wife”. To me, they were the sweetest.

I Found God today in postcards from the past.