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Caring Dentist

Posted by eph21920 on November 18, 2021 in Doctor, Family, Generosity, Grateful, New, Struggles

Last week at the veterans day event, my dad smiled big and we noticed a gap in his teeth. I talked to the nurse and got him set up with the dentist who visits on a regular basis. It just happened that he was scheduled to come today. I actually met him as I was signing in so was able to chat with him a bit. Then I went to find my dad. He was doing his favorite activity – napping. I got him awake and in his comfy chair in his room for the appointment. The dentist was super nice and patient and knew just how to interact with my dad. It was quite an experience. They did some cleaning and took x-rays and everything. My dad was done by the end of the x-rays. Luckily so were they. The hole in his smile was a missing crown. Who knows what happened to it – probably got knocked out in one of his falls. The dentist will come back in a couple weeks to treat some cavities with a topical and prep the tooth to make a new crown. My dad got super confused about appointments – even asked about his sister’s appointment, but he did ok. I was so grateful to have this service available and that I met yet another team of caring people. Of course, the ordeal tired out my dad even more, so I got him comfortable to continue his nap when I left.

I Found God today grateful for a caring dental team.

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Great-grandma sitting

Posted by eph21920 on November 17, 2021 in Family, Fun, Happiness, Life, Relationship

I had two online meetings that I wanted to attend today, but I felt bad leaving my mom to tend to herself for that length of time. So I asked the family if anyone would like to come over and spend some time with her. Both my grandson’s came over for a couple of hours. They played “Sorry” with her, even though I warned them that she never loses. Well, they broke her winning streak. And they all told me that no one was really sorry. Then they played Chinese Checkers, which neither of them had played before. They really liked that game as there was a little more strategy involved. It meant a lot to my mom to spend that time with her two teenage great-grandsons. Or as she said, they were great-grandma sitting.

I Found God today as my grandsons and mother enjoyed time together.

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Another Unexpected Meeting

Posted by eph21920 on November 16, 2021 in Answer, Connected, Faith, Friends, Grateful, Joy, Life

A while ago a friend of mine said she had many Christian books that her mother had collected. She offered them to people who were interested. I said I would like some especially for my grandchildren. Today the box of books arrived. I enjoyed perusing them until I reached the bottom. The last book was a large illustrated story of Our Lady of Lourdes. The title was, “A Smile in the Grotto”. The introduction said, “…the message of Lourdes is joyful, dynamic, and realistic. It contains neither prophecies nor threats nor rebukes. It is the work of Mary, “the Smile of a God who loves us.” It did make me smile. I feel she always shows up for me when I need her the most.

I Found God today in another unexpected meeting with Our Lady of Lourdes.

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All Of Me

Posted by eph21920 on November 15, 2021 in Answer, Bible, Connected, Faith, Knowledge, Life, Opportunity, Prayer

As I thought more about my big birthday and what I wrote yesterday, I realized that while it is important to take good care of my body, it is equally as important to care for the rest of me. We talk about the human person being made up of body, mind, and soul. I would add emotion to that. I think our emotions are really a separate category. To me, the way I am “feeling” can be a result of how my body is feeling, or what I’m thinking about, or the current state of my soul. In any case, I tended more to my whole person today. I have been trying to add the Divine Office to my morning prayer routine. I’m doing my best to feed my soul by connecting with God before anything else. I had my Bible class tonight, so I was challenging my mind and nourishing my soul as well. Also today, I went to a caregiver’s group. This particular session is about processing your emotions, which is why I have been thinking about them. It came at a perfect time when I felt my emotions were running the show. Acknowledging and trying to understand what I’m feeling and why makes me more capable of managing my emotions. When I am able to take some time to take care of all of me, I am more at peace and hope it makes me a better person to others.

I Found God today realizing the importance of caring for all of me.

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It’s a Big One

Posted by eph21920 on November 14, 2021 in Birthday, Family, Food, Happiness, Joy, Laughter, Life

Yesterday was my birthday. Yes, it was a big one. I started the day by visiting my dad with my mom, brother, and my son. When they told him it was my birthday, he sang the happy birthday song to me. I wish I had my phone ready to record it, but I did not. I asked if he knew how old I was. He guessed about 20 years too young and when we worked our way up to my actual age, he couldn’t believe it. I told him that was OK, I couldn’t either. In the afternoon, my sons and family came over to celebrate. My sister and brother worked hard in the kitchen to make my favorite Mexican food, which was delicious. My daughter in law made an amazing chocolate mint cake – also my favorite. We did video chat with my other siblings who were unable to come. As always, there was a lot of noise and laughter. I was exhausted and wired at the same time when I went to bed last night. Today is day two of my next big decade. I made sure to exercise this morning so I keep up on my health best I can. I am grateful that I have family close to celebrate and laugh with. And I am grateful that physically I am doing pretty well.

I Found God today celebrating my birthday.

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Completely Different

Posted by eph21920 on November 12, 2021 in Connected, Family, Life, Past

My mom was reminiscing about her childhood at dinner today. Even though her father couldn’t write, he was quite a business man. He owned the building with his bakery on the street level. He leased out part of it to a barber and another part to a painter for storage. Upstairs was the family home. But there was also another apartment that was leased to another family. In my mom’s family residence lived my mother and her 3 siblings, her parents, and her grandfather. Her parents had a bedroom with a bed. Her brother and grandfather shared a bed. She shared a sofa bed with her sister. And her little brother was in a crib. There was 1 bathroom that was shared by the family and the bakery, so the bakers would come upstairs to use it at all hours of the day. They had no shower, just a bathtub that they used to bathe in once a week. My mom remembered a friend whose father was wealthy. They bought a shower when they first became available. The friend showered every day before school, which seemed very odd to the other kids. Of course it was very different times 80 years ago. And that was different from 80 years before that. I always enjoy listening to my mom reminisce and am always in awe of how my grandfather ran his business and took care of his family without every being able to write.

I Found God today listening to old family stories.

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Veteran’s Day Celebration

Posted by eph21920 on November 11, 2021 in Family, Grateful, Happiness, Joy, Life, Service

I was very excited to hear that Morning Star was going to host a Veteran’s Day celebration. I was also very happy that my brother just came in from out of town last night and that my sister was off work so we could all go and honor my dad. One of the local high school’s Navy ROTC did a wonderful presentation and visited personally with each Veteran. When the young man asked my dad what was important to him, he answered, “My country and my family.” Beautiful. They handed out certificates and the activities director gave each Veteran a rose. My dad gave his to my mom. One of the residents stood and saluted several times during the event. He showed his certificate to my mom and he and my dad had quite a conversation. Then there was food and a pianist who played patriotic songs. We all sang along. It was the most I saw my dad smile in months and such a blessing for all of us.

I Found God today celebrating the military life of my father.

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Still Pining

Posted by eph21920 on November 9, 2021 in Connected, Faith, Family, Life, Prayer

Today when my mom and I visited my dad, we found him dozing in front of the TV on the sofa. My mom sat down next to him and he woke up and said hello. He started talking all about some of his important life events. Most of them were memories of church involvement. He talked about being an altar server for 10 years and thinking he may want to become a priest. He also talked about my mom being the organist at every church they went to. A couple of times he asked if we were going to church today and I told him not on Tuesdays. On Sunday, he told us he realized his assignment there was to be the assistant to the chaplain. We talked about what an important job that was for the right person and that they had to be empathetic and caring. The day before that, he had a need to pray. So, we all prayed to Our Lady of Lourdes and blessed ourselves with holy water. To me, this is all evidence that while his body and mind are waning, he soul continues to pine for Our Lord.

I Found God today in my dad’s spirituality.

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Who Am I

Posted by eph21920 on November 8, 2021 in Answer, Creation, Faith, Humility, Life, Struggles

I enjoyed discussing the homework in my Bible class tonight as we talked about the ending in the book of Job. There are several chapters in which God answered Job’s laments of his current sad situation. He did this, not by explaining why Job is suffering, but by questioning Job’s participation in God’s plan. For example, in Job 38:4, God asked Job, “Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me if you have understanding.” And in 38:12 He asked, “Have you commanded the morning since your days began…?” By the time Job responded to the discourse, all he could say is that he shouldn’t say any more. Job was rightfully humbled before the presence of God. I know I can easily get caught up in the sadness and suffering that exists all around me. And I can lose sight of the fact that God has given each of us our part in life. This discussion was a good reminder to me that God is God and I am not. Who am I to question God’s hand in my life.

I Found God today remembering how small I am.

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Beautiful Actions

Posted by eph21920 on November 7, 2021 in Connected, Faith, Life, Love, Patience, Relationship

Today in church, the scripture readings were about poor widows who gave everything they had to God. The first reading was about the widow who met Elijah. He asked her to care for him. She said she had only enough for a final meal for her and her son. After that, they would die. Elijah promised her that if she helped him, God would take care of her and her son, which of course He did. In the Gospel reading, Jesus pointed out a poor widow who gave all her money to the temple. Jesus explained to His disciples that she had given more than even the rich people because she gave everything she had. In the homily, the priest explained how beautiful the actions were of the trusting, generous, faithful women. As he talked, I couldn’t help but notice the activity around us. A few rows in front of us was a mom, dad, and 2 kids. One of the boys had special needs and he and his brother went back and forth between mom and dad. Both parents were so patient with them and with each other as they taught them the basic movements of the Mass. In front of them was a teenager who also had special needs. He was with an older man. The boy would occasionally rub the back of the old man or gently tug at his sleeve to say something to him. The old man too was very patient. Sometime during the Mass, another family scooted in 2 rows in front of us. This family included a mom, dad, and 5 young children. There weren’t even enough chairs to accommodate the crowd, but they made it work. A couple of the kids were very active and the baby loved to make that high pitched scream. The parents calmly gave their attention to the child that needed it most. After a while, the dad finally took the baby and the next younger out the back doors. While it was somewhat of a distraction, it seemed to me that these parents and families were demonstrating beautiful actions of their own.

I Found God today in beautiful actions.

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