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Power of Forgiveness

My friend whose mother is dying has been writing every day. They have received so many miracles, I could just copy her posts. They are so powerful. Today I read about forgiveness. My friend’s mother and father have been divorced for 30 years. Her dad called her mom to make amends and he thanked her for being such a good mother. They forgave one another. My friend spoke of how grateful she is and how this dying process has offered many blessings and healing. What a beautiful gift for the whole family.

I Found God today in the power of forgiveness.

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Another Year of Life and Love

Today was my dad’s birthday. My sisters, brother in law, and son came over to celebrate. It was an all inclusive party as my parents’ anniversary and birthdays all occur within a couple of weeks. Everyone pitched in to make a delicious German dinner. We had fun cooking together and enjoying the fruits of our labors. As always, we laughed a lot. Most of all, it was joyful to celebrate another year of life and love with my parents.

I Found God today celebrating another year of life and love.

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Connecting Over Coffee

My sister took my dad out to coffee today. As they sat down to enjoy their drinks, they overheard the man next to them saying that he worked at the same place my dad used to work. My dad told the man that he worked there as well. The man and his wife, my sister and my dad all got together and chatted. They talked about work, marriage, children, grand children, the art of genealogy, the military, and more. The man and my dad even had the same first name and their families originated from the same country. The connections they had were amazing and they enjoyed talking for a very long time.

I Found God today in a connection my dad made with a stranger.

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False Alarm

Today I took my mom to physical therapy. While we were there, we received an Amber Alert, so the phones and such were all making the alarm sound. One of the therapists said that always makes her afraid. She said she was on vacation in Hawaii when the false alarm was sent to everyone that a missile was on it’s way. She happened to be out hiking at the time. She tried calling her parents and relatives who were near by, and was able to speak to them a little bit, but the connections kept cutting her off. Many of the people around her were unconcerned, but she was in a panic. Since she is Italian, she said she has a healthy fear of death and God. And she did start to try to barter with Him. A man came running down the mountain who had on a military shirt, so she stopped him and asked him if the warning was for real. He said he was going to find out and that she should wait for him to come back. She thought that was kind of crazy, but she did. When he returned, he assured her that it was a false alarm. Together they finished climbing the mountain. She said the rest of the vacation was amazing – since she had cheated death. Everything she saw was extra beautiful. She said even now she doesn’t get upset by the little things – that she truly does have a new perspective on life. I thought it was a great story that was so telling of how a near death experience can change lives.

I Found God today in the story of  a near death experience.

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Blessings Shared

A few weeks ago, I learned that a friend’s mother was diagnosed with cancer again. Unfortunately, the illness took over. My friend was able to bring her mom to her home and she is receiving hospice care. My friend has been writing daily about the small blessings the family is experiencing during this difficult time. Today she talked about how her mother would pray the rosary especially for the children who were no longer active in their faith. She was encouraged to do this by her parish priest. My friend’s husband was able to get the mom’s favorite large garden statue of Mary and put it in a place where she could see it from her bed. During the past couple of days, a particular sibling who has been away from the church has been making it a point to pray the rosary with his mother. Such beautiful blessings the family is receiving and giving as my friend shares these intimate moments.

I Found God today in prayers answered and blessings shared.

 

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Inspired to Play

There are some wonderful young people who help during my mom’s exercise class. They are students working towards medical degrees. They prepare some of the exercise stations for the class and act as spotters. They also talk with the participants and form great relationships with them. Today  one of the girls said she played the piano over the weekend and thought of my mom. She said my mom inspires her. That was pretty touching.

I Found God today in a thoughtful young woman.

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Pope and the Boy

I saw a video today of Pope Francis who was taking questions from children. A boy came to the microphone but was too upset to ask the question. Pope Francis had the boy come right up to him, gave him a big hug, and consoled him as he wept. The boy and the pope had a few moments to talk privately, without anyone hearing the conversation. When they had finished and the boy returned to his seat, Pope Francis said that the boy gave permission to talk about his question. It turns out that the boy’s father died a short time ago. He was an atheist, but he allowed his 4 children to be baptized. The boy said his father was a good man, but he was worried that his father would not be in Heaven. Pope Francis said that God would not turn His back on His children and encouraged the boy to pray for his father. It was a loving answer to a difficult question. You can see the touching video here.

I Found God today in Pope Francis’ loving interaction with a hurting boy.

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Eye of the Storm

I was listening to music today and the song, “Eye of the Storm”, came on by Ryan Stevenson. It is about relying on and trusting in God when circumstances are beyond your control. I had heard the song several times and noticed that in one verse, the words can change. One time I heard, “. . . when a sickness takes my child away and there’s nothing I can do . . .” and another, “. . . when addiction steals my baby girl and there’s nothing I can do . . . ” Since I was on my computer, I looked it up. I found that the artist was a paramedic for 8 years and saw the hardest part of life out on the streets during this time. He had friends who struggled through difficulties. And his wife had a miscarriage of their twins during her pregnancy. He has a beautiful testimony and is a touching song writer in my opinion. You can read the whole story and find the song here. 

I Found God today in a wonderful song with an encouraging story behind it.

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Dad’s Dating Love

This morning my mom read a meditation for the day from the Jesus Always book by Sarah Young. Then realized she hadn’t read the one for yesterday – their wedding anniversary. She read the first line and laughed saying that it sounded just like my dad when they were dating. It said, “You love me because I first loved you. I had my eye on you long before you were interested in me. I noticed everything about you and followed you everywhere. I orchestrated circumstances and events in your life to help you see your need of me. …. I have loved you with an everlasting love.” Even though this meditation was about God’s love, it sure was fitting for my parent’s anniversary.

I Found God today in a very fitting reading about love.

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Long Marriage

My parents celebrated their 66th wedding anniversary today. I made sure to tell the physical therapist when I took my mom this morning. The 2 therapists in their late twenties who were working with my mom were very impressed. They asked my mom what the secret was. She gave her standard answer, “Just be nice to each other.” One of the therapists responded that you first have to find someone that you want to be nice to for a very long time. We talked about relationships and how marriage is a conscious choice to love. The “in love” feeling can go away and problems arise, but a married love is the commitment to be there for and take care of the other person. Unfortunately, this seems very hard to come by. The young adults talked about how most of the people they know are not married, but some have children by different partners. People truly want a loving, committed relationship, but don’t seem to be able to make it happen, which leaves us sad and hurt. Then we end up fearful and not wanting to trust. My parents grew up in a different time for sure, but it was more supportive of a long term marriage. The most beautiful thing that I find in my parent’s marriage is that even though they struggle with their short term memory, they remember and reminisce about when they were young together and the many years they have spent together. We did much of that when we went to dinner to celebrate.

I Found God today appreciating my parent’s long marriage.