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Back to Things

When my dad had the stroke, everything kind of stopped. We just took one day at a time as it presented itself. But as he has been recovering and doing so well recently, we have been considering returning to classes and such. Today my mom decided to take the leap and attended her exercise class. Everyone was happy to see her and she was happy to see them. I enjoyed walking and talking with the other caregivers. My mom did great in the class. While we were gone, my dad got after the laundry. In the evening I returned to my Bible class. It was good to be there and delve into God’s Word. And I was grateful to hear that the class had been praying for my dad and my family this whole time.

I Found God today as we made efforts to return to normal things.

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Mountain Top Experiences

The Gospel reading at Mass today was about the Transfiguration of Jesus, when some of the Apostles climbed a mountain with Jesus and saw Him shine in His glory. I could very much relate to the words the priest shared. He said that we all have “mountain top” experiences in which God reveals Himself to us in a very intense moment. This can be during a retreat, prayer, or another point in time when we are extremely connected to God. He shines through for us. But those instances are few and far between. It is up to us to stay connected to God through our prayer life. Otherwise, it is too easy to allow the darkness take over. If we can remain faithful, when those difficult times come – and they will – we can remember those “mountain top” experiences and remember how much God loves us. He will be our night light, our beacon, keeping us focused on Him instead of the troubles around us. I, for one, was grateful for the reminder.

I Found God today remembering my mountain top experiences.

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Finally Painting

For the past couple years, we have been celebrating my sisters’ birthdays by getting a group of friends together and having a painting party. It has been hard to make this happen, but today it finally worked out. Last night, I really enjoyed baking cookies and muffins for the event, even though I was up later than usual. Today we met our friends and family and just had a wonderful time. We played games, ate, laughed, and got our creative juices flowing. All of our paintings looked very different, but beautiful in their own way. Since we have all been doing this together several times now, it is a very comfortable, fun group who look forward to the event. It seemed everyone really needed this outlet right at this time.

I Found God today enjoying a fun time with friends and family.

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Welcomed Change of Pace

It has been pretty hectic around here. Therapists and nurses have been coming over 4-5 days a week. My parents have had several extremely restless nights. Yesterday, the last therapist came over to discharge my dad from the program. Last night, my parents slept like they haven’t for years and got up late. It was so nice not to have to get ready for anyone or anything as there were no appointments today. My dad even stayed in his pajamas for most of the morning. The whole day was relaxing and a welcomed change of pace.

I Found God today in a more relaxing atmosphere.

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Spider Bite

My sister has been feeling just terrible for over a week now. It all started when she discovered a spider bite that appeared to be infected. She made a trip to the hospital where they took care of it, took some tests, and gave her antibiotics. Two days later she came down with a high fever. Another trip to the hospital confirmed she had the flu. She feels she probably got it from her first visit. She quarantined herself to her bedroom for days. Then she found out that she did indeed have a staph infection from the spider bite. Things seemed to keep going from bad to worse. She has been toughing it out though and doing what she ought to with the encouragement of her husband. Today she announced that her temperature was finally back to normal. That was definitely good news to hear and I’m so glad she is getting better.

I Found God today as my sister feels better.

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All About Physics

My parents didn’t sleep well last night, so my dad was pretty tired this morning and not really looking forward to his appointment with the Home Health Care Occupational Therapist. She was to evaluate the progress my dad made and discharge him from that area. But when she arrived, my dad perked up a little. She was very nice, very pretty, very smart, and very helpful. But the thing that impressed my dad the most was that she loved Physics. My dad was happy to be discharged, but being a physics teacher for years, their conversation about that topic is what meant the most to him.

I Found God today in a delightful and smart young woman.

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Young Love

My nephew has been dating a young woman for a couple of years now. We have always thought they have been a very good match. They compliment one another. They treat each other with kindness and respect and their love for each other is evident. My nephew called us this evening to let us know that they got engaged. We all congratulated them and said how happy we are for them. My dad said it will be wonderful to have his fiance as a part of the family. Hearing such good news was so welcomed and really warmed my heart.

I Found God today in young love.

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Got to Mass

It has been weeks since I have been to Mass. We have been watching the Sunday broadcast on EWTN. We have also been blessed by a gentleman from our church visiting to bring Communion. But this morning I was able to take the opportunity to attend Mass with my son. I very much enjoyed being in the church, singing the songs, seeing those preparing to be Baptized, praying and receiving the Eucharist with the community. I have recently been reading the Acts of the Apostles, and the experiences of the early Church really came to life for me. There is such a sense of God’s Presence in the Mass that cannot be found anywhere else. And being with my son was an added bonus.

I Found God today in Mass.

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No Control

I talked with a friend of mine today whose mother has been having some health issues. She was in the hospital for a couple of days and will now be following up with assorted specialists. They are still looking for definite answers and potential treatments. My friend was understandably upset about the situation. As we talked, I was reminded of how I felt when my dad had the stroke – or when my mom is having a difficult time. I try to do all that I know to keep my parents healthy. Yet, things still happen to them. And then I get angry about it – like I did something wrong or didn’t do something I should have. That kind of thinking is, of course, ridiculous. After all, my dad is almost 90 years old, my mom is almost 88, and they are both human beings. They have a mortal life as do I. No matter how much I try or how much I worry, their mortal life will eventually come to an end. But, they also are a part of the spiritual world, in particular the Body of Christ as am I. We have been Baptized into this body and will remain a part of it through eternity. And the promise of the joy that will bring is beyond anything I can imagine. The more I pray and trust in God’s love, the more peace I have. Knowing that He is in control and has our best in His heart now and forever, I can reduce my worry and stress. It is hard to come to terms with the fact of what little control I actually have, but when I can, life is better all around.

I Found God today remembering how much I need to Trust in God’s perfect plan for the lives of my parents and me.

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Man Spa

Before my dad had his stroke, he had decided to let his hair grow out some. It was getting pretty long, then he ended up in the hospital and rehab for about 4 weeks. During that time, he kept saying how he couldn’t wait to get it cut. My brother promised that they would go together when he felt up to it. He’s been home 3 weeks now and today was the day. My brother and my dad went to the “man spa” as I call it – their favorite place to get a haircut. My dad got the full treatment including the hot towel facial. They returned clean, shiny, and relaxed. They also ran a couple errands, so it was a pretty big day for my dad and he managed very well. He was more than ready to nap this afternoon.

I Found God today as my dad got a little pampering.