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Lake Powell

This morning at church, the priest started talking about a trip he and his family took to Lake Powell when he was 13 years old. They rented a houseboat to live and travel on during the vacation. I was immediately taken back about 35 or so years ago when me, my husband at the time, my sister and her husband at the time, and our brother did the same thing. It was one of the best adventures we had ever experienced. Houseboats don’t go very fast, so we spent a week just meandering the waterways, taking in the scenery, and basking in the summer sunshine. We joked that we had to make notches in the side of the boat so we could keep track of what day it was. I smiled as the priest described the layout of the land with the high cliffs, narrow crevices, and occasional sandy beaches. He recounted how they had to locate a good-sized beach and pull the houseboat up onto it to anchor there for the night. I knew exactly what he was talking about and envisioned the guys getting the boat up to a decent speed to land it on the beach. We were very fortunate to have good weather almost the entire time. The priest, on the other hand, had a very harrowing experience one evening and continued with his story. As they were headed toward a cove to beach for the night, an unexpected storm arrived. It was blowing and raining against them, coming from the direction they were heading. The boat was making headway, but very slowly. Finally, after dark, the beach was in front of them. The priest, at 13 years old, was handed the rope for the boat. His father said that he was going to get up as much speed as he could and when the boat was on land, the boy was to jump off the front and tie the rope around a large rock. The boat got up speed, the front end reached the sand, and the boy jumped off as instructed. But the wind and rain were pushing the boat, and he was unable to get it tied down before the boat was back in the water. The boy watched as the houseboat with his family on it drifted further and further away. At one point it disappeared behind a stand of rocks and he could no longer see the lights. The boy was alone in the dark in a storm. After what seemed to be an eternity, the lights reappeared as his father got the houseboat up to speed once again and headed toward the beach. This time, his mother was given the wheel and his father jumped off the front of the boat and was able to tie it down. The point of the story was that when the priest as a boy was left alone in the dark, he felt helpless and even hopeless as he thought about what to do if his family didn’t make it back to him. But when he saw the light of the boat, he knew his family was coming back and that he would be ok. So it is with our faith life. We can feel like we are trapped in the darkness, afraid, alone, hopeless. But if we allow ourselves to encounter the light of Jesus, we will be assured that He will care for us.

I Found God today in memories of a wonderful time in my life, and a great story with a faith connection.

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Weekly Flowers

I went to lunch with some friends today and one of the older ladies talked about visiting her husband’s grave at the National Cemetery where my parents are also buried. We agreed that it was heartwarming to see all the Christmas wreaths laid on each site. She also talked about the camaraderie felt with others visiting the cemetery with the common military experience. She said that she met a man there who lays flowers on his wife’s grave site every week. The 92 year old man in the group said he does the same thing. He said he also brought her flowers every week when she was alive. He thought it was “normal”. All the ladies “awwwwed”. What a sweet example of everlasting love.

I Found God today in an example of everlasting love.

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Syrup

I am trying to get back to more healthy eating, so today I made some tuna salad with an apple cider vinegar “de-tox” dressing. While I was at it, I decided to make some granola. I had some pecans and some coconut flakes and found a recipe that sounded good. It called for maple syrup. I remembered I recently finished the yummy syrup I got from New Hampshire. And I was excited as I had a jar of syrup made by my cousin that I brought back from Wisconsin. Now was the perfect time to crack it open. I gave it a little taste before adding it to the granola ingredients. It was delicious. The granola smelled amazing while it toasted in the oven. I thought about the big party that my cousin hosted and how wonderful it was to see everyone. They were gracious, generous, and compassionate. The loving connection with family is so powerful, in person and in memories. I will think of my visit with my cousins every time I have the granola and the syrup.

I Found God today thinking of loving family connections.

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Relaxation

On New Year’s Day, my son’s tradition is to have a Lord of the Rings marathon. I love the movies, so this year I decided to join him. All of them take about 14 hours, so they have to start pretty early. When I arrived in the morning, my son and his wife had made an impressive, delicious breakfast. We filled our plates with Dutch baby pancake, bacon, sausage, and blistered cherry tomatoes, then headed to the couches and started The Fellowship of the Ring. I stayed for about half the day, making it through 1 1/2 movies. Then I went home, watched another movie and just relaxed. It felt nice to unwind after the busyness of the holidays. The church tradition for today is to honor Mary and tell the Nativity story again, including when Mary and Joseph had their baby circumcised according to their tradition of it being the 8th day after birth. They also gave him his name of Jesus as instructed by the angel. One of the scriptures for today is from the book of Numbers and is one of my favorites. It seems particularly valid as we start a new year:

The LORD bless you and keep you!  
The LORD let his face shine upon      
you, and be gracious to you!  
The LORD look upon you kindly and give you peace!

I Found God today in a relaxing day and prayer for peace.

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Craft Time

For Christmas, my granddaughter received some new craft kits. We decided we should have craft time, so we got together at my house today. My daughter in law brought a crocheted blanket she has been working on. My granddaughter brought a rainbow unicorn latch hook rug. I got out a diamond painting I have been working on. We worked on our things for a while and talked. Then my granddaughter wanted to try the diamond painting. I showed her how and we traded crafts. She worked on the diamond painting and I worked on her latch hook. After a bit, I opened a new kit that I got from a friend this summer. It was a kind of wooden puzzle. There were 4 sheets of wood that had different thickness and colors. They each had lettered and numbered pieces that were cut into the sheet. It only took a bit of prompting to get them completely out. The directions were basically a picture guide and I had to look at them carefully to put the pieces together properly. I kept telling myself it was good for my brain. I completed the first step – which was actually about 8 – and it was going together pretty well. It will be a sunflower in a box stand when it’s completed. While we crafted, we chatted and had snacks and talked girl talk. My granddaughter is 10 and I have seen a huge change in her this year. She was wearing some new pants that she bought with some of her Christmas gift cards. She also got some stick on nails that were very pretty. It was such a fun afternoon and I am grateful to spend this time with them.

I Found God today spending time with my daughter in law and granddaughter.

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The Church Pew

Today I visited an elderly friend. While I was there, my 12:00 noon timer went off. Many years ago, my mother said she remembered when she was in school as a child, they would pray the Angelus when the church bells rang at noon. So, I set the alarm. My mom and I and whoever else was around said the prayer together. I still do. While I was at my friend’s house today, she was familiar with this tradition and said she would be happy to join me in the prayer. She showed me a small, personal sized pew kneeler that she had tucked away in her room. We pulled it out and set it in front of her little personal altar. She didn’t use the kneeler anymore as she was unable to get up and down. So, she sat in her comfy electronic chair and I used the kneeler as we said the short prayer. Afterwards, she said she wanted me to have the kneeler. I thought perhaps she should save it for one of her children. She answered that they don’t attend church anymore and that she wanted it to be put to good use. I thanked her profusely and packed it into my car before I left. When I got home, I brought it down to my room with my statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe. I’m making quite a little prayer area in my room and I love it.

I Found God today in the gift of a pew kneeler.

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Holy People and Families

The Sunday after Christmas is the Feast of the Holy Family. As a divorced woman, I sometimes cringe at the readings, feeling like they don’t apply to me, or that I have somehow messed it all up already. But today I watched the homily of Fr. Mick Schmitz, which I loved. It made sense to me. He talked about the roles of Joseph and the Blessed Virgin Mary. In the scriptures, Joseph never says a word, but he listens to the promptings of God. He takes Mary and the baby Jesus to different locations to protect them. He accepts his responsibility and is the protector and provider of the family. Mary nurtures the baby Jesus as mother and puts her trust in her husband Joseph, trusting that he is looking out for their best interest. Seems simple enough. Yet, in our current world, “roles” as mother and father, husband and wife, or even as woman and man seem to be invalid. That leaves us all grasping for an identity, a purpose, a guide. That is not to say that all people, marriages, and families should and do function the same. The big take away for me was that when we human beings follow the plans God has for us, our lives are more free, loving, and peaceful. Here are some of the statements that particularly struck my heart:

Joseph and Jesus are incredible examples of masculinity – strength developed and put at the service of the people around them.

Mary is an example of courage and trust, “Let it be done to me.”

Proverbs 31 describes women as “the woman of valor”… she’s trustworthy, she’s strong – physically strong, spiritually strong, emotionally strong.

A holy man and a holy woman are not the same, but are complementary.

All individuals are called to be holy… to put on heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, bear with one another and forgive one another. … over all these put on love. (Colossians 3:12-21)

Even though I am divorced, I can still take Mary’s lead by being courageous and trusting in God and His path for my life. I am incredibly grateful that He is my provider and protector and has been for many years. When I can let go of my attempts to control and simply trust I am allowing God to be merciful in my life and the lives of those around me. Today, I prayed for all the families I know in all the situations and circumstances that may be.

I Found God today in examples of Holy people and a Holy Family.

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Safety and Peace

At one point, we planned on spending Christmas at the cabin. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out. So today I decided to make a trip up there and take care of a couple of things. It may snow tomorrow, so I thought this would be the best time. When I arrived at the top of the driveway, I noticed 4 cute small fuzzy deer just off the road in the woods. I slowly drove past the driveway to assess the entrance and exit before deciding to park there. It was snow packed on one end with some patches of snow and ice in the driveway itself. It didn’t look too bad. I knew I would be able to make it down the gravel driveway just fine, but was still a little uncertain about the snow packed incline getting out. I turned around and drove by slowly the other direction and decided my SUV should be able to make it. When I came to the top of the driveway again, I noticed the deer were still busy munching away on the other side of the road. I stopped and rolled down my window to take some photos. Luckily I had my camera out and ready. They didn’t seem bothered in the least and I took many pictures that I still need to sort out. It was so peaceful to just watch them. When I had enough, I straightened out the car and went down the driveway. I realized that what looked like snowpack was actually ice. Never the less, I didn’t have any trouble going down. Once I parked, I walked up to check out the exiting path. It was also pretty icy but didn’t cover a large area. I decided not to worry about it and enjoyed being at the cabin. Later in the afternoon, the wind started howling and I could see the snow in the distance. It was time to go. I packed up the car and locked up the cabin. I put the car in snow/gravel mode and headed up the driveway. I got up a bit of speed and went right over the snow/ice pile with no problem. Going to the cabin is always an adventure. I thanked God for the little get away, the peace and the safety.

I Found God today in safety and peace at the cabin.

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Joyful, Grateful, Peaceful

I have had a wonderful week full of Christmas joy, gratitude, and peace. Last weekend my oldest grandson came home for a few days. I decorated the house, made goodies, and hosted Christmas dinner for my family. We played Christmas song charades, laughed a lot, and ate a lot. Before the meal, I led the prayer as usual, but I found myself choked up and teary as I have just felt so grateful this year. After explaining to my family, my son finished the prayer. Earlier this week, I spent an afternoon with some friends. We watched Christmas movies, laughed a lot, and ate a lot. I found myself teary eyed during the movies as well – even through Charlie Brown’s Christmas – thinking of God’s love and humility coming to be with us as a baby. On Christmas eve, I went to Mass with my son and his wife. We worshipped God, prayed a lot, and sang the Christmas songs that we wait all year to sing. It was difficult to get through all the verses as I was choked up again and teary with gratitude for God’s goodness. On Christmas day I went to my son’s house for breakfast. He, his wife, and the kids were all up bright and early. I had made some of my mom’s traditional Sugarplum bread and shared it. They showed me their Santa presents, we visited, and ate a lot. It was just joyful. In the afternoon, the whole family including my siblings got on a Zoom call. We exchanged Secret Santa gifts, laughed a lot, and everyone sampled the goodies I mailed them. It was good to see everyone joyful. That evening, my boys and families gathered at my son’s house for Christmas dinner. We exchanged some gifts, played Christmas song charades again as it was so much fun, laughed a lot and ate even more. I loved seeing my son and his wife celebrating their first Christmas together as a married couple. They were starting their new traditions and getting things all figured out. By the time we left, everyone was exhausted, but in a good way. I felt so much peace driving home in the starlit sky humming, “Silent Night”. This morning I read a quote by Pope Leo XIV from his Christmas homily:

If all of us at every level, would stop accusing others and instead acknowledge our own faults, asking God for forgiveness, and if we would truly enter into the suffering of others and stand in solidarity with the weak and the oppressed, then the world would change.”

And now, I will try to hang on to the joy, gratitude and peace. But I must stop eating so much.

I Found God today in a joyful, grateful, peaceful Christmas week.

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He is Here

The reflection from Hallow today was beautiful. For thousands of years, people have cried out to God for help to save us from our struggles, from our suffering, from our own self destructive ways.

“What broke the silence of generations was the cry of a baby – something so innocent, something so delicate, something so relatable.”

Glory to God! He is with us! Love was born this night!

I Found God today in the miracle of God coming to earth.